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fkshg8465's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I wasn’t sure if I’d like this book. Reviews were all over the place, and the negative ones were enough reasons that I almost walked away. Those were the same reasons I might’ve hated this book because I’ve hated other books for these reasons (weak-willed women, lack of action or plot). But I considered the really strong reviews on the opposite end of the spectrum, and I’m glad I read it.
Lucy reminds me so much of my mom - self-effacing, resilient, steady, and insisting on being heard on her terms even in a world that does everything it can to minimize and infantilize women. I liked Lucy also because she continued forward despite her past, her husband’s monetary and family origins, her own dysfunctional family, and having to make it on her own within the walls of the patriarchy. She’s quietly persistent, open to the kindnesses of the world, and someone I might like to be friends with. I look forward to the second book in the series.
Lucy reminds me so much of my mom - self-effacing, resilient, steady, and insisting on being heard on her terms even in a world that does everything it can to minimize and infantilize women. I liked Lucy also because she continued forward despite her past, her husband’s monetary and family origins, her own dysfunctional family, and having to make it on her own within the walls of the patriarchy. She’s quietly persistent, open to the kindnesses of the world, and someone I might like to be friends with. I look forward to the second book in the series.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Colonisation, War, and Classism
ashleyjean6's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
This is beautifully written; but so sad. A woman writing about her life and looking back at her traumatic childhood (poverty, abuse) and her escape which brought her to a place she feels out of place in. It's a very humbling book, one that makes you feel seen as a human. It's seems simple, but it's really the opposite. It's difficult to explain. But I want to read more.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Death, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, and Classism
catmumm's review against another edition
emotional
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
This book is incredibly sad. I cannot figure out the point of the book. It doesn’t really have a plot. You can definitely tell it was written by a Boomer. Younger generations have figured out you don’t need to keep terrible parents in your life. You don’t have to trick yourself into thinking that they were “doing their best” when they were not providing you with the basics. You can be free of any hope you have that they will suddenly be different, love you, and support you. Because you are most likely never going to get that. You deserve better.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Emotional abuse and Homophobia
bufalowevr's review against another edition
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Medical content and Death of parent
bookedbymadeline's review against another edition
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Easy, quick read at less than 200 pages. I read this in one sitting, and only finished because I have book 2 and have heard it’s better than Lucy Barton, plus as I said it’s a quick read.
Stream of consciousness writing style with chapters jumping from different points of time which could be confusing at times. I’m not a big fan of this writing style because it usually lacks depth and the characters felt one dimensional.
I felt detached to the characters because there’s a lot of telling instead of showing. Maybe it’s because of how short the novel is and it tries to span so much time in so few pages.
The book is an interesting exploration of a childhood lived in extreme poverty, neglect, tense mother-daughter relationships, and loneliness. I did appreciate some quotes that made me think but overall it’s not bad or great, just average and forgettable. I’m hoping other reviewers are right and book 2 (as well as another of Strout’s novels, Olive Kitteridge) is better.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, and Classism
Moderate: Death
Minor: Genocide, Homophobia, Murder, and War
rhia_a's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
4.0
Content Warnings
Minor: Child abuse, Confinement, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, and Abandonment
ericageorge91's review against another edition
hopeful
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.75
The first time I read this book, I finished it feeling nothing but indifference. I thought the stories were random and meandering and I kept waiting for something to shift and for me to start really caring but it never happened. It felt like a literary version of waiting for my body to sneeze.
Going into it a second time around, knowing that there’s no plot to be had, allowed me to appreciate the story a lot more.
I knew Lucy was a lonely character, but it took the reread for me to notice that Strout is writing this story as an extension of the character’s loneliness. Lucy just seems to be chatting her stream of consciousness to the reader like we’re her friend lending her a listening ear and she loves us—just loves us! Reading it with the Lonely Bitch lens, I’m able to see how pervasive Lucy’s loneliness was and realize that her random stories (crying subway children, the Met statue of the father and his children) are more intentional than I thought.
References to child abuse (physical, emotional, sexual) and neglect, discussions of infidelity, war, gun violence
Content Warnings
Graphic: Homophobia
Minor: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, and War
rosalind's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
The whole experience of reading felt like sticking my fingers in someone else’s open wound; intimate, but not in a nice way.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child abuse and Medical content
Moderate: Death, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Death of parent
Minor: Sexual content and Classism