Reviews tagging 'Grief'

Feeding Ghosts by Tessa Hulls

12 reviews

msrumphius's review against another edition

dark emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Confinement, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Self harm, Violence, Grief, Cannibalism, Murder, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Abandonment, Colonisation, War, and Classism

Moderate: Death, Racism, Rape, Sexual violence, Suicide, Torture, Toxic relationship, Dementia, Medical trauma, and Suicide attempt

siriface's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Mental illness, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Dementia, Grief, Medical trauma, and War

emelynreads's review

emotional informative sad

4.0

I most appreciate this story for the artwork and the Chinese history. It's very internal, a lot of working through complex emotions and trauma, especially depicted in the last third of the book. 

The 'cowboy alternative identity' is an interesting one that kind of took me by surprise. All the adventures the author gets up to while avoiding her family sound super interesting and maybe we'll see more of that in a future book. I'd be very interested in reading more about her time as a chef in the arctic. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Torture, Violence, and War

Moderate: Grief

Minor: Animal death, Self harm, Suicide, and Cannibalism

amris's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Genocide, Mental illness, Suicide, Torture, Violence, Forced institutionalization, Dementia, Grief, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , and Colonisation

Moderate: Racism, Rape, Self harm, Medical content, Medical trauma, and War

Minor: Child death, Misogyny, Blood, Cannibalism, and Abortion

mynumber3voice's review against another edition

adventurous challenging dark emotional hopeful informative reflective sad tense medium-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Mental illness, Grief, and War

Moderate: Death, Panic attacks/disorders, and Suicide attempt

Minor: Rape, Self harm, Dementia, Cannibalism, and Death of parent

town_scar's review against another edition

dark emotional informative reflective medium-paced

5.0

This was simultaneously hard to put down and required I put it down repeatedly in order to process and reflect. This touches close to home for me, in ways I had not remotely anticipated when picking it up but I'm endlessly grateful for. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body horror, Death, Genocide, Mental illness, Misogyny, Self harm, Sexism, Torture, Toxic relationship, Dementia, Grief, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Colonisation, War, and Classism

Moderate: Racial slurs, Murder, and Gaslighting

Minor: Rape, Sexual assault, Cannibalism, and Abortion

Illustrated depictions of emaciated humans, self harm, and imagery of suicide paraphernalia without actual depiction are present. Numerous acknowledgments and some depictions of human atrocities such as genocide, warfare, and famine.

shay43geek's review against another edition

challenging dark hopeful inspiring sad tense slow-paced

4.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Mental illness, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, and Suicide attempt

Moderate: Infidelity, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Pregnancy

jayisreading's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful informative reflective sad slow-paced

5.0

In this powerful graphic memoir with a unique art style, Tessa Hulls takes a deep dive into the complexities of history, immigration, generational trauma, and healing in her family. I admit that I didn’t expect such a deeply nuanced look into these themes in a graphic memoir, especially with how Hulls weaves together all these complex ideas to show the ramifications of significant turmoil in twentieth-century China on the generations after those who went through said turmoil. I also really appreciated how Hulls takes a close look into how mental illness was approached in her family, as well as its deep ties to trauma and memory. There was a refreshing frankness to this approach that I feel isn’t as widely discussed among the Asian diaspora (though this is definitely changing).

This book also had me thinking a lot about what was passed down to me—one of the first in my family to be born in the United States—and how I had/have to contend with similar disconnects and traumas that Hulls (as well as her mother) went through. Most (if not all) go unspoken, and there’s often a kind of loneliness in having to deal with them on your own. However, finding community makes a world of a difference, as Hulls aptly pointed out when she found her safe space. With all that said, I found myself having to read this book very slowly because there was just a lot of information and thoughts to sit with; I did appreciate every detailed page though. (I will admit that one small criticism I have is that some pages just had too much information, so much that it occasionally made it difficult to make sense of the bigger picture.)

All-in-all, this is a graphic memoir well worth picking up for how informative and reflective it is, and it will especially hit close to home if you also have a similar background as Hulls.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Mental illness, Racism, Grief, Colonisation, War, and Classism

Moderate: Confinement, Self harm, Suicide, Torture, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Suicide attempt

Minor: Addiction, Rape, Dementia, Cannibalism, Abortion, and Murder

ginnylambda's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Mental illness, Racism, Toxic relationship, Violence, Xenophobia, Grief, and War

Moderate: Gore and Blood

Minor: Self harm

Black & white depiction of self-harm in chapter about adolescence as well as acknowledgement of SH behaviours/scars between two teens - just two pages right next to each other. While the images are in black and white, there is a recurrent image/depiction of black fluid swarming/pouring in and out of characters - it could resemble blood or vomit and is very visceral.

faerietalebooks's review against another edition

challenging emotional informative reflective sad slow-paced

4.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Mental illness, Dementia, Grief, Death of parent, and War

Moderate: Rape, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, and Murder

Minor: Animal cruelty and Abortion