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itsbaberuthless's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Moderate: Ableism, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Pregnancy, and Abandonment
Minor: Body shaming, Fatphobia, Infertility, Death of parent, and Classism
fanboyriot's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Ableism, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Infidelity, Misogyny, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Pregnancy, Abandonment, and Classism
Moderate: Child death, Death, Miscarriage, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Death of parent, and Gaslighting
Minor: Body shaming, Cursing, Fatphobia, Violence, Blood, Vomit, and Alcohol
readingwithkaitlyn's review against another edition
Graphic: Ableism, Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, and Violence
Moderate: Child abuse, Grief, Abandonment, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Body shaming, Bullying, Death, Gun violence, Miscarriage, Racism, Terminal illness, Blood, Medical content, Death of parent, Murder, and Pregnancy
chaotically_katie's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Ableism, Body shaming, Child abuse, Child death, Chronic illness, Confinement, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Blood, Excrement, Vomit, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, and Alcohol
justno's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
And then things started going downhill, and it was extremely hard to get back up. I forgave the book many times acknowledging that many of the things they said and how they acted (Refering to having daughters as a disgrace, the painful conversation between Violet and Daphne before she got married) are just a reflection of the time the book is set in, but some others are even painful to read (or hear, in my case)
I might give the other books a chance, definitely only in audiobook format, the narrator was at leats 50% of the fun I had with the book
Graphic: Sexism, Sexual assault, and Sexual content
Moderate: Cursing, Fatphobia, Infertility, and Abandonment
Minor: Body shaming
sillyduckie's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Ableism, Body shaming, Child abuse, Infertility, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Violence, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Classism
Moderate: Stalking and Colonisation
Minor: Death and Vomit
summerslittlelibrary's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault, and Sexual content
Moderate: Ableism, Child abuse, Infertility, Pregnancy, and Abandonment
Minor: Body shaming, Cursing, Fatphobia, Misogyny, Sexism, Vomit, and Death of parent
chloewakham's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.25
Graphic: Rape and Sexual content
Moderate: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, and Violence
Minor: Body shaming and Sexism
lisa_m's review against another edition
2.0
Well it's definitely problematic. Maybe even more problematic than the series.
I did enjoy parts of the story but the relationship is surely toxic and the representation as well.
Graphic: Ableism, Body shaming, Death, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Grief, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Abandonment, and Alcohol
sophienorns's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
In a few words:
In a few more words:
> Cons:
- The female clothing is painfully inaccurate for the era it's supposed to be set in, and it really removed me from the narrative, because it's just a blatant disregard of proper fashion etiquette for the sake of easy sex.
- The lack of consequences. In no way did Simon consent to having sex with his wife and ejaculating inside of her when sleepy and drunk. Daphne suffered absolutely no consequence for raping her husband, and the whole problem was completely turned onto him for not trusting her WHEN THEY WERE BOTH WRONG and she never apologized for doing something horrible to him. I know the book was published in 2000 --and it shows-- but I'm honestly over the sugar-coating of sexual assault of a male character by a female character under the excuse of "men always want sex what are you even talking about lol". Consent can be given and withdrawn at any point and the other person should only comply.
- The plot is predictable and kind of boring. The TV series changed and added a lot of details and plot points, but it is less boring than the book. Just watch the TV series, honestly.
> Final thoughts: I was enjoying this book throughout most of it, but I waited until the end for the resolution of the main conflict between them and found it lacking. I feel like the author should have made them talk more about it and analyze what each of them had done wrong, and then given us the adorable ending we were all hoping to read.
Graphic: Rape and Sexual assault
Minor: Body shaming