Reviews tagging 'Dementia'

The Swimmers by Julie Otsuka

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firedew's review against another edition

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reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0


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nicolestegall's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

This is a very quiet novel. It deals with heavy topics, family, friendship, life in general. Heavy but good. 

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sadhbhprice's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.5


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siobhanward's review against another edition

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emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

2.5

This book started so strong - the story of the swimmers was fantastic, and I hoped that was the direction it was going to continue in. I found that Alice's story and how it was told just didn't work for me. It felt disjointed from the first part of the book and that it didn't go deep enough into anything to stand on its own. I think this might have been better as a short story focused only on the swimmers, or as a longer novel that had more time to focus on Alice and her relationship with her daughter. 

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avisreadsandreads's review against another edition

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challenging dark mysterious reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

2.5


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nautilus18's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.0


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phoevincent's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5


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alexisgarcia's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

the writing felt a little disjointed and unfinished, but maybe i just didn’t really get/appreciate it? idk. i really liked both halves separately. i appreciated the mentions of frontotemporal dementia, and how we treat/handle people with it.

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aseel_reads's review against another edition

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reflective sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? N/A
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.75

The first half of this made me want to start swimming again and the second half of this made me want to hug my mum and a bit worried about the dementia genes in my family...

I really liked the way this was written, in the repetitive way of stating facts that advanced the plot, pretty unique and very easy to understand. 

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magicinwords23's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

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This was such a beautiful little read at 176 pages and a book that took me by surprise. I read the blurb and even saw a review but wasn’t prepared for the turn this story took. 

The swimmers that frequent the local swimming pool don’t know each other personally but only by their swimming habits, the lane they use, fast medium or slow and the costumes they adorn week in and week out. 

When cracks appear all around the pool the swimmers begin a forage of panic until sadly they learn the pool must close permanently. They all go back to their lives as before without any fuss except for one swimmer whose life is about to change forever. 

The story centres around Alice who is suffering from frontotemporal dementia and whose memory has decreased considerably that her daughter and husband place her in a home. 

The narrative takes on a sad and heartbreaking tone as Alice is told what to expect from her life from then on. She will never remember what she will no longer be able to do nor how her disease will progress. 

The story turns again and is told from the POV of Alice’s daughter. This part upset me because she never had much to do with her mother since leaving home and never once invited her into her life. She describes how the disease takes over and everyday little changes are visible that become greater with time until her mother finally stops talking and their visits consist of hand-holding in silence. 

There were times when Alice’s husband reached over to touch her in the bed or walked into the kitchen expecting to see her washing dishes only to remember where she was and realise he was now alone. His loss, grief and heartache utterly devastated me. 

This book was very relatable to me as I had a family member in a home with Alzheimer’s for six years and every detail was so close to what I experienced or expected my relative to have experienced. 

The loneliness, the longing for the past, the yearning to be at home again and not in this Godforsaken place that people keep saying is your new home when all you want is to be back on your sofa with a nice cup of tea. Not understanding why you are there in the first place, the longing by loved ones to be remembered and eyes, that have lost their sparkle and are now black staring, trying so hard to place how you are connected. 

Although this was a poignant and compelling novel, it is a raw insight into a person's life where they are no longer themselves and need around-the-clock care. Those who have experience with this may find this distressing as I did so beware of the trigger warnings beforehand

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