hln's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Fatphobia
Moderate: Rape
Minor: Racism and Misogyny
zombiezami's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Sexual assault, Body shaming, Medical trauma, Vomit, Rape, Fatphobia, Medical content, Injury/Injury detail, Sexual violence, Eating disorder, Misogyny, Mental illness, and Sexism
Moderate: Bullying, Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, Grief, Toxic friendship, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Racism, Gaslighting, Classism, Infidelity, and Chronic illness
Minor: Xenophobia
kshertz's review
3.5
Moderate: Violence, Toxic relationship, Dysphoria, Ableism, Fatphobia, Medical trauma, Eating disorder, Bullying, Body shaming, Rape, Sexual violence, Gaslighting, Misogyny, Injury/Injury detail, and Emotional abuse
mandi4886's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Fatphobia, Rape, Body shaming, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Eating disorder, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, Misogyny, Racism, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Classism, Cursing, Biphobia, and Ableism
Minor: Abortion, Miscarriage, Suicidal thoughts, Medical trauma, Lesbophobia, Infidelity, Homophobia, and Hate crime
itszosia's review
5.0
Graphic: Fatphobia, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, and Body shaming
Moderate: Racism, Misogyny, and Sexism
foreverinastory's review against another edition
5.0
CWs: Rape, sexual assault, sexual violence, trauma, eating disorder, vomit, fatphobia, body shaming, racism, emotional abuse, toxic relationship. Moderate: Medical content, medical trauma, medical fatphobia, domestic abuse, sexual content, misogyny, sexism, injury/injury detail, mental illness, self harm, ableism, suicidal thoughts.
Graphic: Sexual violence, Eating disorder, Body shaming, Fatphobia, Racism, Vomit, Toxic relationship, Rape, Sexual assault, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Medical trauma, Domestic abuse, Sexual content, Medical content, Misogyny, Sexism, Injury/Injury detail, Self harm, Ableism, and Suicidal thoughts
alsoapples's review
4.5
Graphic: Sexism, Medical content, Fatphobia, Misogyny, Medical trauma, Rape, Sexual assault, Injury/Injury detail, Eating disorder, and Body shaming
savannahtrice's review
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Rape, Sexual assault, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Racism and Misogyny
linesiunderline's review
5.0
It has taken me far too long to prioritize this memoir. I am left feeling moved, challenged, and changed.
Gay’s prose is so clear and unflinching. Her writing manages to be direct and full of emotional resonance at the same time. I listened to this on audio, and the experience of hearing the author share her own story in her own voice, was especially powerful.
This is a complex, raw, and human book. I wish everyone would read it. If you’re waiting for “the right moment” like I was, maybe it’s now.
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Medical content, Rape, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, and Vomit
Moderate: Chronic illness, Injury/Injury detail, Misogyny, Racism, and Suicidal thoughts
sammies_shelf's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Fatphobia, Misogyny, Sexual assault, and Eating disorder