kay_e_poet's review
5.0
Graphic: Eating disorder and Physical abuse
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Body shaming, Self harm, Physical abuse, and Fatphobia
Minor: Vomit
susysimmonds's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Alcohol, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Medical trauma, Physical abuse, Rape, and Sexual assault
thebankofbooks's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Racism, Mental illness, Sexual assault, Addiction, Rape, Sexual harassment, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Medical trauma, and Physical abuse
savannahtrice's review
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Rape, Sexual assault, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Racism and Misogyny
sleeson's review against another edition
1.25
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, and Vomit
letmetakea_shelfie_'s review
5.0
Graphic: Rape, Emotional abuse, and Physical abuse
jessy_03's review
1.0
Graphic: Bullying, Mental illness, Sexual harassment, Body shaming, Racism, Sexual violence, Racial slurs, Rape, Sexual assault, Eating disorder, and Physical abuse
happyladyjadereads's review
4.0
Graphic: Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, and Body shaming
purplemind's review
3.75
This is a difficult book to read. That is not so because it isn't well written enough, or engaging enough, but rather because, as the author herself explains in one of the first chapters "The story of [her] body is not a story of triumph". It's a raw, harsh, devastatingly honest story, though.
Roxane Gay leads us through the journey of her relationship with her body and the way it and her life story are entwined in a sort of feedback loop of cause-effect, whose consequences she has to deal with every single day. I found it deeply relatable in parts, as a woman who often feels her body is also "unruly", as the author puts it; the others I still found gripping, often heartbreaking and anger-inducing, but always interesting. Once started, it just draws you in, the only thing that prevented me from finishing it in one sitting was my own limited free time.
That said, I did find the formatting - with its very short chapters - a little distracting. In parts, the chapters themselves, in my opinion, seemed a little repetitive, circular in their points, and I think they could have been grouped together in larger ones with ease. This is definitely a matter of taste, and just by listening to the other peole in my book club I know it won't be universal. So, make of that what you will.
In conclusion, I'd recommend this book to someone looking for a challenging read, and a different point of view on the matter of weight and worth. Please be aware that this book discusses issues of rape, abuse, eating disorders and - obviously- fatphobia; if any of these topics is particularly upsetting for you, please proceed with caution.
Graphic: Eating disorder, Fatphobia, and Rape
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Physical abuse