A review by danastaples
The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet Lerner

5.0

Life changing. I highly recommend. I want to immediately re-read it. I was surprised with this being such an old book (1985) that it was so on point with issues women face that cause us anger, and the ineffective ways that we typically try and deal with those triggers that just do not work. The author is very validating, while simultaneously challenging readers to examine and take responsibility for their own role in patterns that cause them anger and how to change those patterns. Recommend to anyone with relationships that cause them stress, anger, or frustration with spouse, parents, in-laws, etc.