A review by amandalorianxo
I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter by Erika L. Sánchez

emotional sad tense fast-paced
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

I wanted to like this book. The cover and the title drew me in. I'm not Mexican but I am a first-generation oldest daughter born to two parents who immigrated from South America to the United States. However - in spite of learning later on why Julia acts the way she does || depression mostly|| I wasn't sure why the author made her seem so unlikeable. Her flaws are clearly full-on display from the beginning and while I understand her mother was controlling - there was only so much I could take before I had to stop myself from lashing out at a fictional character. I had to remind myself that she wasn't in her late twenties like I was - she's 16/17 throughout the book. I did appreciate though that ||therapy|| was something Julia went through. I a lot of Latino parents, unfortunately, grew up in a generation where their mental health wasn't seen as a priority and it shows when they raise their children. It's important for both parents and kids to realize that resources are different now compared to back in the 1950's/60/70's. Having emotions, feelings, and wanting to have their own opinions is not a sign of disrespect towards those that raise us.  There's a lot more that I wanted to add but if I think of anything else - I will edit this review. 
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