A review by paigeweb
Mrs. Dalloway by Virginia Woolf

5.0

This book had my jaw on the floor repeatedly just from the beauty of the writing. I loved so much about it, from the pirouetting of the social rituals and its reflection in the way the narrative ricocheted seamlessly from the perspective of one character to another, to Clarissa’s rejection of religion for a unique theology of human interconnectivity, to the themes of temporality and memory, to the dark underside of war, trauma, and death that lingers beneath the mundane performances of daily life that we cling to. My favorite Virginia by far. An offering for the sake of offering. This will stay with me forever.


“Clarissa had a theory in those days— they had heaps of theories, as young people have. It was to explain the feeling they had of dissatisfaction; not knowing people; not being known. For how could they know each other? You met every day; then not for six months, or years. It was unsatisfactory, they agreed, how little one knew people. But she said, sitting on the bus going up Shaftesbury Avenue, she felt herself everywhere; not ‘here, here, here’; and she tapped the back of the seat; but everywhere. She waved her hand, going up Shaftesbury Avenue. She was all that. So that to know her, or any one, one must seek out the people who complete them; even the places. Odd affinities she had with people she had never spoken to, some woman in the street, some man behind a counter— even trees, or barns. It ended in a transcendental theory which, with her horror of death, allowed her to believe, or say that she believed (for all her skepticism), that since our apparitions, the part of us which appears, are so momentary compared with the other, the unseen part of us, which spreads wide, the unseen might survive, be recovered somehow attached to this person or that, or even haunting certain places after death… perhaps—perhaps.”

Death was an attempt to communicate; people feeling the impossibility of reaching the center which, mystically, evaded them; closeness drew apart; rapture faded, one was alone. There was an embrace in death.”

“Then (she had felt it only this morning) there was the terror; the overwhelming incapacity, one’s parents giving it into one’s hands, this life, to be lived to the end, to be walked with serenely; there was in the depths of her heart an awful fear.”