A review by irxren
The Collected Regrets of Clover by Mikki Brammer

5.0

“Grief is just love looking for a place to settle.”


After a sleepless night filled with tears, I find myself compelled to articulate my thoughts on a book that unexpectedly became the highlight of my week. I approached it with skepticism, given its weighty subject matter, but the author managed to weave a tale that was both tender and heartwarming, defying my expectations.

The protagonist, Clover, a death doula well-versed in thanatology, navigates the complexities of her profession with grace. Having lost her parents at a young age, she was raised by her educated grandfather. As she fulfills the dreams of those on their deathbeds, Clover clings to their advice, regrets, and the memories forged in their intimate final moments. This narrative unfolds as the journey of a vulnerable woman transforming into a better version of herself, unlocking opportunities for love, happiness, and heartbreak.

The book encourages us to be there for our loved ones, creating a safe space for conversations about this natural part of life. It prompts reflection on the inevitability of death while posing a profound question: How do we live a good and beautiful life?