A review by t_shaffner
The Madness of Crowds: Gender, Race and Identity by Douglas Murray

4.0

Note: I'm using the spoiler tag here to allow collapsing of addition detail/examples in places where they should be optional. In this type of book spoilers don't really matter so ignore the meaning of the tag; just use it as a "more detail" expansion.

This is an important book. As a thoughtful, methodical, and rigorous discussion of our political moment I've rarely found anything this incisive, and in some ways I found it incredibly useful for understanding the topics better as a result.
SpoilerFor example, for all the advocacy recently I have remained relatively uninformed on intersex/trans and found myself rather moved both with a deep sense of compassion for the complexity and difficulty of intersex people and for the profundity with which the trans urge can manifest (I was left particularly interested in reading the book [b:Conundrum|553103|Conundrum|Jan Morris|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1320522156l/553103._SY75_.jpg|540336] as the description of it and excerpts from it alone were powerful and touching). Prior to this I couldn't have told you the difference, and after this I'm left with both an understanding and a sense of both as being important issues meriting more attention.


That is of course ironic because the purpose of the book was in many ways to critique how the movements themselves are actually advocating for these causes, and while I found the issues themselves more important for the reading, I was also fairly convinced that many of the current efforts being made under the guise of supporting the causes of race, gender, orientation, and general identity issues are incredibly lacking in nuance and often actively counterproductive. They work against one another, sow confusion, and come with a degree of judgment and certainty that does a great deal to increase suffering.

Related to this, large portions of this book were, quite simply, incredibly hard to read. A number of them were almost painful.
SpoilerOne example was the casualness of trans movement workers actively supporting efforts to convince children they're trans and enabling them to undergo life-changing and irreversible medical procedures while actively working to suppress honest and unbiased discussions of whether this is the right choice. It shouldn't be hard to get on board supporting trans people in many cases, but it should be just as easy to recognize that children do not always jump to the correct conclusion in their very first thought as 8-year-olds, and encouraging irreversible decisions based on kneejerk reactions is child abuse, not wisdom. Other examples were the various outrage mobs/incidents that have occurred, most of which I already knew of but many of which I had somehow missed the extremity of.
These portions of the book were particular demoralizing as they leave one with the sense that truth or rationality are not recognizable in our world anymore, and that the dynamic Trump displays on the right is actually as actively at play on the left. They also solidify pretty hard the degree to which a core paradigm of our time is in fact the encouraging of new forms of racism as long as they are directed in certain ways, and the examples at play and inherent hypocrisy in them are, at times, jaw dropping. These portions of the book were thoroughly demoralizing and the reason a star is taken away; they make the theme more important but they're so hard to get through it makes the experience rather torturous.

Notes for my future self; the end results here were severalfold but two points in particular jumped out:

The first was a claim that a careful analysis of the current manifestations of many rights movements,
Spoiler particularly the choice to focus the trans movement not on intersex first but on the extremes of trans,
seem to imply an underlying effort not to convince but to divide. The claim is that the movements as currently used are being actively wielded as a bludgeon to splinter, sow doubt, and foster division and strife, in particular with a goal of deconstructing the society we live in and to open pathways to offer radically different visions of society as "solutions." This statement immediately resonated with me as often, currently true.
Spoiler This of course doesn't, at least in my mind, apply to other aspects of these movements; the traditional women's rights movements up to and including things like [b:Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead|16071764|Lean In Women, Work, and the Will to Lead|Sheryl Sandberg|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1364250803l/16071764._SY75_.jpg|21865596] and the gay rights movement prior to gay marriage being legalized in the US strike me as prime examples of equality movements that truly were positively focused and well grounded.
I will be paying attention however from now on to see how much this claim rings true in current manifestations of all these issues.

The second point he makes is that the inherent question that is not present and should be introduced into discussions that are critical of our societies is "in comparison to what?" Underlying so much of these critiques is an implicit idealized view either of some past or other society or some unsullied state at birth. His point is that an analysis of the comparison either enables a discussion of where things are in fact better or forces us to face the reality that, for all the remaining faults in our world, the societies being critiqued are often the best humanity has managed to create. These discussions need this anchoring in reality to avoid reasonable critiques of societies destroying the best solutions yet found.

For these two things in particular I'm glad to have read the book as I will continue to reflect on them as useful tools going forward to help understand and keep more grounded in all such discussions. And particularly on the trans issue I'll be glad for a thoughtful analysis as having helped me understand why this matters from someone whose fairness and thoroughness left me convinced I can trust him as an honest broker on the issue.

For the rest of the book and how painful it was at times to experience, I'll be glad when the experience has faded a bit from memory.