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A review by pinkyprincesscupcake
Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl— A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship by Sherry Argov
3.0
3/5 stars
Some of the advices were really good, made me re-think the way I was acting around male and even got some confidence tips.
BUT
Some of this triggered me, scared me even.
The author treats men like they are animals, dumb that just want to have power. This is not okay. The « Dumb fox » part was alarming !
You don’t want to act dumb and like a wifey to be respected by man that’s just not how it works. You don’t want to act like you can’t change a light ball to be attractive that’s just scary.
This has a lot of manipulative advices, it’s no good to start a relation with manipulative behaviour. You shouldn’t change yourself for a guy, if he wants to be with you that’s for you not because you are acting a certain way to please him, that’s what a boss ass bitch / indépendant women would do.
Don’t change yourself.
I was adviced this book after a breakup, and this book was a very interesting read but I hope more feminist and boss ass bitch vibe not just « Don’t pay at restaurants » because yes, you should do 50/50 that’s what a boss ass bitch that respects herself would do in my opinion.
Reading this I realised that some of the advices (if applied, and some should definitely not be applied) you will attract a narcissist man or end up cheated on because a boss ass bitch, strong independent woman, whatever you want to call it, doesn’t act like she needs a man to change a tyre !
Some of the advices were really good, made me re-think the way I was acting around male and even got some confidence tips.
BUT
Some of this triggered me, scared me even.
The author treats men like they are animals, dumb that just want to have power. This is not okay. The « Dumb fox » part was alarming !
You don’t want to act dumb and like a wifey to be respected by man that’s just not how it works. You don’t want to act like you can’t change a light ball to be attractive that’s just scary.
This has a lot of manipulative advices, it’s no good to start a relation with manipulative behaviour. You shouldn’t change yourself for a guy, if he wants to be with you that’s for you not because you are acting a certain way to please him, that’s what a boss ass bitch / indépendant women would do.
Don’t change yourself.
I was adviced this book after a breakup, and this book was a very interesting read but I hope more feminist and boss ass bitch vibe not just « Don’t pay at restaurants » because yes, you should do 50/50 that’s what a boss ass bitch that respects herself would do in my opinion.
Reading this I realised that some of the advices (if applied, and some should definitely not be applied) you will attract a narcissist man or end up cheated on because a boss ass bitch, strong independent woman, whatever you want to call it, doesn’t act like she needs a man to change a tyre !