A review by alicedroni
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

5.0

Made me think about my relationship with my mom a lot more than i wanted to while thinking about my dating life hahaha

I think this book brings up a lot of really great questions and self-reflection topics. Like all polyamory books I'd absolutely recommend this to my monogamous friends as well, i think it has a great view on dealing with attachment both within oneself and in a general sense of relations with others. i found a lot of my secure attachments lie within platonic friendships and it's nice to decouple this from a mono-normative lens.