A review by embattista13
I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman

dark mysterious reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

 This book did not go in the direction I originally thought it would, and I'm so glad that was the case. The story isn't written to
solve its mysteries, it actually adds more questions that will never be answered. This slightly frustrated me at first. Until I realized that "solving the mystery" wasn't the point of the story. The point was to explore how humans may deal with a situation where they're unable to solve the mystery, how they may or may not find purpose in life in response, and how they may find themselves in all the confusion (especially the main character).
 
The way Harpman writes is so enchanting, there are many ups and downs in the story, mellow and slow parts and exciting parts, and I felt as if I was along for the ride the entire time.  When the main character was feeling hopeless, excited, or tied down, I too felt that way. You almost feel like you're grieving, reacting, and coping with the experience alongside the 40 women. There are also many reflective moments that moved me and were quite thought-provoking.
 
If you have the chance, please read this book!! It's not the most energetic novel, but it's such a good read and definitely worth it.
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