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Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After by Katherine Woodward Thomas

4.0

This book helped me process my breakup/divorce in as positive a way as possible. I read this book on my own vs with my ex, but it helped me see the longterm benefit of leaving a relationship - no matter the reasons - with love, respect, dignity and grace. As l share children with my ex, finding a path forward that doesn’t smack of resentment, anger and bitterness will help me heal and help me be a better co-parent with my ex, and give our kids as healthy an environment to grow up in as possible. Divorce is more prevalent than ever before, and as the equality gap between men and women close - the trend is expected to continue. The divorce industry or family law is the most profitable courtroom out of any other area of law. It really begs the question why get married! I know very healthy, positive marriages exist - but according to this book, only 30% of marriages consider themselves “happy.” Staggering odds in my opinion. In an effort to fight the negative current that divorce court forces, I can choose to not make my divorce a battleground and not make my ex my enemy. Forgiveness, kindness, and grace go a long way to helping all of us get to an positive next chapter in our lives. The most positive outlook book I’ve read on separation thus far.