A review by maddramaqueen
What We Don't Talk about When We Talk about Fat by Aubrey Gordon

challenging dark emotional hopeful informative reflective sad medium-paced

4.5

This book rocks.  Literally everyone should at least try to read it.  I recognize that it can be triggering, and it was for me, but especially for straight-size people who have not experienced anti-fat bias on a societal level this is absolutely necessary.  Even as a fat person myself I learned so much about the violence facing those fatter than me that I was entirely unaware of.

If you can't handle the topics covered, I fully understand.  I'm in eating disorder recovery myself and this topic was triggering for me.  But the final chapter is one of the greatest pieces of activist writing I've ever read and I think everyone should read that chapter *at least*.  

Thank you so much for writing this, Aubrey Gordon.  It will be an oft recommended book in my future.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Hate crime, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Medical content, Medical trauma, and Sexual harassment

Moderate: Ableism, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Mental illness, Misogyny, Racism, Rape, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Stalking, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, Colonisation, Dysphoria, and Classism