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A review by ponasadomas
The Narcissist in Your Life: Recognizing the Patterns and Learning to Break Free by Julie L. Hall
5.0
Before reading "The Narcissist in Your Life: Recognizing the Patterns and Learning to Break Free" by Julie Hall, I never thought I was surrounded by narcissists. I had always blamed myself for other people's actions and believed that I was at fault for the negativity that swirled around me. My therapist, sensing the pain that these thoughts caused me, suggested that I read this book.
At first, I found it incredibly hard to read. I had to stop and digest everything multiple times, as it was like seeing the world without dark shades on my eyes. As I delved deeper into the book, I experienced a rollercoaster of emotions. I was shocked, angry, and sad all at once, as I realized that I was not the one to blame for the toxic relationships I had experienced.
Hall's book opened my eyes to the very thing I was most afraid to see - that it wasn't me, it wasn't my fault. It's just the way they are, and sadly, narcissists won't change. The author offers invaluable insights and guidance on how to recognize the patterns of narcissism and break free from their grip.
This book is not for everyone, and thankfully, most people won't experience the epiphany that I did. However, if you sometimes suspect that maybe it's not always your fault, that maybe your feelings matter too, I urge you to get this book. "The Narcissist in Your Life" might be the most important book you wish you never had to read as well. Julie Hall has provided a lifeline for those caught in the web of narcissism, and her words will undoubtedly change lives for the better.
At first, I found it incredibly hard to read. I had to stop and digest everything multiple times, as it was like seeing the world without dark shades on my eyes. As I delved deeper into the book, I experienced a rollercoaster of emotions. I was shocked, angry, and sad all at once, as I realized that I was not the one to blame for the toxic relationships I had experienced.
Hall's book opened my eyes to the very thing I was most afraid to see - that it wasn't me, it wasn't my fault. It's just the way they are, and sadly, narcissists won't change. The author offers invaluable insights and guidance on how to recognize the patterns of narcissism and break free from their grip.
This book is not for everyone, and thankfully, most people won't experience the epiphany that I did. However, if you sometimes suspect that maybe it's not always your fault, that maybe your feelings matter too, I urge you to get this book. "The Narcissist in Your Life" might be the most important book you wish you never had to read as well. Julie Hall has provided a lifeline for those caught in the web of narcissism, and her words will undoubtedly change lives for the better.