A review by sphtnt
Wired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate by Stan Tatkin

4.0

I love reading about dating because I think it’s such a silly, frustrating, and interesting thing humans do. This book differed from others given the really tangible tools it offers and a neuro approach always seals the deal for me. Some examples of potential dialogue felt clunky and almost too good to be true, but there are lots of starting points for folks in and out of relationships. I also appreciate the wave/island/anchor way to describe attachment styles as I feel there’s way less shame compared to being labelled avoidant or anxious.