A review by murffinator
Meditations: A New Translation, by Marcus Aurelius

3.0

I liked it but I wouldn't say there is anything incredibly profound in here, much of this I've read in different places already. But I do like his phrasing with certain ideas and they are great reminders. And, of course, the challenge is in the application, not in the reading.

Here are a few of the best highlights:

- It's unfortunate that this has happened. No. It's fortunate that this has happened and I've remained unharmed by it - not shattered by the present or frightened of the future. It could have happened to anyone. But not everyone could have remained unharmed by it. Why treat the one as a misfortune rather than the other as fortunate? So remember this principle when something threatens to cause you pain: the thing itself was no misfortune at all, to endure it and prevail is great good fortune.

- You don't have to turn this into something. It doesn't have to upset you. Things can't shape our decisions by themselves.

- But, my good friend, consider the possibility that nobility and virtue are not synonymous with the loss or preservation of one's life. Is it not possible that a real man should forget about living a certain number of years, and should not cling to life, but leave it up to the gods, accepting, as women say, that 'no one can escape his fate', and turn his attention to how he can best live the life before him?

- Give yourself a gift: the present moment. People out for posthumous fame forget that the Generations To Come will be the same annoying people they know now. And just as mortal. What does it matter to you if they say x about you, or think y?

- Someone despises me. That's their problem. Mine: not to do or say anything despicable. Someone hates me. Their problem. Mine: to be patient and cheerful with everyone, including them. Ready to show them their mistake.

- It's time you realized that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a puppet. What's in my thoughts at this moment? Fear? Jealousy? Desire? Feelings like that?

- It's all how you choose to see things. That the present is all we have to live in. Or to lose.