A review by tchien
Dating-ish by Penny Reid

emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This wasn't the devouring page-turner that would normally get a five star review for me. But Penny Reid incorporates so many excellent and thoughtful elements to the MCs and has clearly done an exhaustive amount of research that I can't help but give it the highest rating possible. Some reviews complain that the hero is unbelievable and unlikable. I can understand this, but I'd argue that this kind of man is far more prevalent in real life than the alpha and overly cinnamon bun-sweet heroes we read in most romances. The self doubt and issues Matt had are understandable and relatable for anyone who has ever had an emotionally immature parent. The self confidence, patience, and ABSOLUTELY BELIEVABLE NORMAL behavior of Marie drew me to her as someone to emulate. And wow, the level of scientific research that went into this book alone is to be commended. Add to that Reid's signature found-family theme in all her KITC books, and this book is chef's kiss. Everyone should use Matt and Marie's relationship and interaction to learn what a healthy, communicative relationship ought to be like.