A review by kitty_kat21
The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book about Relationships by Neil Strauss

4.0

Originally posted here

I had read the author's earlier book, The Game prior this year and I was equal parts morbidly fascinated and disgusted. I am so glad I read The Truth as it is an inspiring sequel and really closes a chapter in the author's life that began in his previous book. I don't think that The Game needs to be read first though by any means, The Truth works great as a standalone.

Where to start with this fascinating journalistic-style memoir focusing on one man's journey exploring sex addiction, rehab, non-monogamy and ultimately finding his inner self. It certainly is extremely uncomfortable to read at points and absolutely hilarious at the same time. I just cannot believe that Neil Strauss went through it all, it seems like far too much for any one person to handle.

Neil starts the book in rehab for sex addiction as he has just cheated on the love of his life, Ingrid. Neil doesn't take rehab very seriously at first and reluctantly tries his hardest to engage but ultimately he decides that monogamy can't be natural (as he finds it just too difficult) and he wants to explore non-monogamous relationships. The story unfolds from there and I really felt like I was experiencing Neil's journey alongside him as he went from one crazy situation to the next. It was just brilliant.

Near the last third of the book, the real inspiring soul searching begins and I was so emotionally invested in Neil and Ingrid that I just enjoyed every word. There is plenty of interesting things that are discussed such as alternative relationship styles, therapeutic techniques, psychology, spirituality - it was a very insightful read.

I would highly recommend The Truth to everyone, I found it funny, inspiring and it is the perfect book to read after reading toxic books such as The Game that explores the 'pick-up artist' culture.