A review by lauren_epub
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

5.0

Read this because someone on Reddit recommended it, and boy am I glad I did!! The abusive behavior I have been dealing with is not coming from a romantic partner, but I still found myself highlighting things and having my entire concept of abuse turned on its head. It's like putting on glasses for the first time and noticing the leaves on trees! Except the glasses are the wise words of Lundy Bancroft, and the leaves are the real problem abusive people have (which is an attitude/worldview problem).

So revelatory I went out and bought a physical copy! Will be referring to it for years to come, especially the last few chapters about recognizing change.