This book feels like a writing assignment you rush to type out in Google Docs at 11:00 p.m. when it’s due at 11:59 p.m.
I know that may sound harsh considering it’s a memoir and it’s real, personal stories, but this book seemed very surface level and was so full of grammatical errors that I kept wondering How did this get published? and Did no one proofread this? I counted over ten!
The ending definitely got more personal but most of the book just felt like zooming through her life and only catching split-second glimpses. I borrowed this book from my library to read and frankly I think I’d be upset if I had actually spent money to read it.
I think this story as a whole is a beautiful and crushing one and I understand why so many people love this book so intensely but I just didn’t love it the way I’ve seen others love it. A lot of the times, the way this book was written would throw me off, make me feel disconnected from the story and characters, and made it harder for me to enjoy. I pushed through because I wanted to know what all the hype (and tears) were for lol.
This book definitely had me feeling sick with emotion at times, especially towards the ending, but the writing style unfortunately wasn’t for me.
SpoilerAlso, I need to note how emotionally attached I became to Briseis. I love her like nobody else. She deserved so much better. Briseis I will avenge you.
Graphic: Gore, Infidelity, Genocide, Murder, Violence, War, Injury/injury detail, Medical content, Grief, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Blood, Death, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, and Sexual content
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.75
I didn't hate this but I didn't love it either. Pretty spice heavy if that's your thing. (It's not mine, which definitely contributed to me not loving it lol).
I struggled to keep reading this book to be honest, but I do think it makes for a good Christmas read if you’re looking for a lighthearted holiday romance.
SpoilerI know that mae and andrew were the main couple in the story but theo and mae’s situation/relationship felt kind of incomplete for me? I don’t necessarily wish I had seen more of them romantically but the fact that we hear about them making out in the opening, then she doesn’t talk to him for most of the book, and in the end it’s just very quickly resolved makes it feel like something was missing for me. Also some of the dialogue made me cringe and I had to pretend I didn’t even read some of the metaphors because I had no idea what they even meant. Overall it isn’t a terrible book; I think it’s a good story, there were just several things in it that I didn’t love.
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.75
I’m a little conflicted on my feelings towards this book and some specific aspects of it, like the ending, but overall I did enjoy it! Also, the no quotations marks was really easy to get used to for me personally.
Update: I think this book gets better the longer you sit with it.