I couldn't really tell who the audience of this book was. It had a strong opening, and a STRONG ending, but the middle felt disconnected & like not everything had a real purpose. It seemed like the author spent a lot of it recounting her journey without a lot of editing, and then she did a beautiful job of reflecting on her story in the end, but the purpose was lost in the middle. It wasn't really full narrative, full reflection, or full here's-what-being-in-a-cult-was-like—by the end, I was left wishing for more of at least one of those categories and feeling like I was promised something that wasn't quite delivered on until the very last few pages. I can tell writing this was a wonderful journey for the author; I wish it had translated a little more over to a wonderful experience for the reader, too.
Graphic: Confinement, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Slavery, Suicidal thoughts, Xenophobia, Trafficking, Religious bigotry, and Pregnancy
This book helped me feel SO much more peace about pregnancy (something that, deservedly, I've been nervous about!) Emily Oster goes into the whys of so many pregnancy rules and regulations, and for someone so factually-grounded like me, it made me feel so much more relaxed about things I know my husband and I would have been neurotic about before. It also did a much better job (in my opinion) than What to Expect about some of the pitfalls and expectations in pregnancy; Oster doesn't give a full timeline of every possible event, but she goes into what some common side effects are and how to tell if what you're experiencing is normal or not (with statistics to reassure you that you're probably going to be fine!) The book is much easier on the anxiety than WtE's laundry-list-of-complications style of delivery.