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17 reviews
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
CW for two scenes that depict near-death drowning experiences.
Did not finish book.
Also, if that isn't enough, she makes no sense in her writing, contradicting herself within the same paragraph at times. She also uses language that I THINK is ableist against mentally ill people, but I can't tell because it's all vague nonsense. It's just vaguely spiritual sounding phrases most of the time.
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
5.0
Graphic: Body horror, Sexism, Sexual content, Transphobia, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Medical trauma, Dysphoria, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Bullying and Acephobia/Arophobia
Minor: Incest
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
4.5
Moderate: Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Death, Hate crime, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Racism, Murder, and Outing
Did not finish book. Stopped at 43%.
Maybe a good read for healing your inner child. Might scare kids (and some adults) if they're sensitive to the paranormal, since it's treated as real.
4.75
For example, someone seemed upset that Michael (correctly) asserts that someone can't be "a little autistic". The spectrum isn't a line from a little to a lot, but more of a circle where some symptoms are present and others aren't. Michael explains this and other information about autism and his experiences clearly. Other people are upset when he uses identity or person first language— even though he specifies at the beginning that he will do both. Michael also specifies that only a doctor can diagnose autism— I don't think he does this to gatekeep. I think it's to cover his ass so he doesn't get sued when he later talks about suspecting his friends of being autistic.
Reviews explaining their dislike of the author really feel like a "holier-than-thou" attitude. If you expect the author to be human, trying his best but not perfect (and not a voice for all autistic people), you'll enjoy this memoir. Leave any autism infighting or gatekeeping at the door. I really appreciated Michael's respect for those of us with autism who cannot be as independent as him. Even though his perspective is more common than others as an early diagnosed white man with support, I still found value in his story.
In Michael's words from the Resources section: "Do what I did: I had a look, applied some critical thinking to what I found, and decided to use what worked for me."
If you listen to the audiobook, download the supplemental material ahead of time. I wish that it was presented as a PDF /ATTACHED/ to the audiobook like other audiobooks I have read. (It may well be— my copy came from the library, though.) Having it hosted on the publisher's website is just asking for it to become lost media. That's the only reason it loses .25 stars.
Graphic: Ableism
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
5.0
This graphic novel took me about 20 minutes, so I expect the rest to be around the same pace.
Minor: Antisemitism
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Transphobia, Mass/school shootings, and Outing
Moderate: Ableism, Addiction, Medical content, Religious bigotry, Abortion, Outing, and Dysphoria
Minor: Deadnaming, Racism, Sexism, Slavery, and Injury/Injury detail