this felt like a Hallmark screenplay. dialogue was terrible, characters were insufferable, half of it was a cookbook ???, and the dead grandma was not compelling in the least. Sadie took much too long to solve the riddle and it was MADDENING ! can we get some critical thinking in the chat pls ?! Also wish I had a shot for each time I read "shit ass" (meant to be a term of endearment ?) because maybe then I'd have enjoyed this book a bit more being blinded by intoxication. I should have DNF'd lmao
Shari does a wonderful job approaching this devastating circumstance with nuance and so much grace. I would have loved some more reflection on how the LDS church (and church in general) enables abuse....and how this isn't a one-off situation, but something that occurs frequently. Unfortunately, she is still practicing so there was no real critique of the powers that be but rather summed up with "men make mistakes" and she continues to "trust god". I digress. Still a compelling story!
more, MORE inner workings from the brain of 54 year old menopausal woman. I laughed and cried. I related to Rocky's musings as a 26 year old. I will be thinking about quotes from the book for quite some time, truly beautiful writing.
"And this may be the only reason we were put on this earth. To say to each other, I know how you feel. To say, Same. To say, I understand how hard it is to be a parent, a kid." "I cry a little then, because of the conversation and the wine and this absolute devastation and blessedness, rolled up into a lump in my own throat that I have been trying to swallow for my whole life." "She waited to die until I left the room, which is a thing I've heard parents do. I can imagine it. I mean, you're never done being somebody's mom, ever, are you? She took care of me until the very end."
I love this series, the way the author strings you a long with humor while simultaneously discussing life and death truly makes for a beautiful read. I didn't want the book to end!