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Yinka, Where Is Your Huzband? by Lizzie Damilola Blackburn

doctabird's review against another edition

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3.0

3.5

seeker24's review against another edition

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emotional lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

Very cute story and romantic comedy. I enjoyed reading and learning about the Nigerian culture and food. 

But I think I prefer to watch the movies vs reading the genre. It takes so much longer and still has the tropes of a romcom that give off second hand embarrassment or irritation. 

minkskinks's review against another edition

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funny hopeful inspiring medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

First off, 4 ⭐️

This novel follows 30 something, single, virgin Yinka. Her life seems to be going well and then like life does, everything takes a turn. She loses her job, her ex boyfriend of 3 years is engaged and her family publicly prays over her singleness. 

Yinka reaches her wits ends and comes up with a plan to have a date to her cousin's wedding 6 months away. We follow that journey. 

I found this book to be super relatable. Yinka's awkwardness, desperation to be loved and the awkward stage in life that she is in, immediately makes you fall in love with who she is and who she becomes. 

This book has short journal-like chapters, that I love. Yinka has some internalized colorism going on. Heads up, a little bit of a trigger warning. 

bocasbri's review

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4.0

Spoiler this book was a lot of fun! i loved yinka as a main character. she literally had me laughing out loud at points. i normally don’t care too much for romance—especially when your family is constantly mentioning/forcing it. but the book really is more about yinka’s growth. she is essentially struggling with being an adult and finding her way. romance really fell secondary, which was a plus for me but could definitely be negative for others!

rorygilmore's review against another edition

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emotional medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

doctormon's review

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emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

yinkao's review against another edition

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funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

debbiemeow's review against another edition

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emotional funny inspiring lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

des_demona's review against another edition

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funny lighthearted reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

spongebobbiii's review

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emotional funny hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

If you're on the hunt for a captivating, thought-provoking, and thoroughly enjoyable read, "Yinka, Where Is Your Huzband?" by Lizzie Damilola Blackburn, narrated by Ronke Adékoluejo, should be at the top of your list. I found this book randomly, and this book had me hooked from the very beginning!! I rated it a solid 5 stars without a second thought. It was that good!

One of the most remarkable aspects of this novel is its adept exploration of multiculturalism, relationships, and family dynamics. Blackburn skillfully weaves these themes into the narrative, providing readers with perspectives that will resonate with a wide audience. But what truly sets this book apart is the inclusion of an aromatic character. Approaching this story with no prior knowledge, I was pleasantly surprised and thrilled to discover the inclusion of an aromatic character. When someone identifies as aromatic, it signifies that they do not experience romantic attraction. Amidst the book's heavy focus on romance and relationships, it was truly refreshing to encounter the inclusion of the opposite end of the emotional spectrum.


Character development is another area where "Yinka, Where Is Your Huzband?" truly shines. The evolution of the main character, Yinka, is masterfully executed. Readers will find themselves not only rooting for her but also feeling a deep connection to her journey of self-discovery. There many moments that are cringeworthy and others that invoke triumph.

If you're an audiobook love, you're in for an extra treat with this one. Ronke Adékoluejo's narration was absolutely on point! The audiobook version is expertly produced, with the inclusion of minor sound effects that enhance the overall experience. For instance, when Yinka is engrossed in texting conversations, you'll hear the subtle sounds of her typing away, bringing an added layer of immersion to the story.


I'm delighted to have stumbled upon this book unexpectedly and to have taken the chance on the audiobook. I wholeheartedly recommend it, especially for fans of "Maame" by Jessica George.