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The Four Winds by Kristin Hannah

44 reviews

astoriareader's review against another edition

challenging emotional reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No

5.0

SYNOPSIS:

• It is the 1920s in a small farming community in the Texas Panhandle. Elsa Martinelli grew up in a wealthy family, who never appreciated her & make her feel hard to love. At age 25, she hooks up with Rafe, and she winds up pregnant. They get married, and she moves in with Rafe and his parents, Rosa and Tony, on their farm. 
• Fast forward, it is 1930s. Along the stock market crash & The Great Depression, there are also several years of drought and The Dust Bowl. Elsa has two kids now, Ant & Lareda, and with no end in sight to the dust storms, Elsa abandon their home and flee to California where they hope work and a better life await. The book details what happens when the family arrives in California. 

MY THOUGHTS

• As my first read of 2024, I wanted to start off with a book by one of my favorite authors. This marks the fourth book I’ve read by Hannah, with the others being: The Great Alone, The Women, The Nightingale.
• Hannah is an expert at character development & writing strong female characters. I always learn something when reading her historical fictions. In this one, I learned a lot that I didn’t know about the Dust Bowl & migrants.
• I thoroughly enjoyed the bonds that develop among the characters in the book, and the imagery and vivid descriptions of the surroundings were also very well done.
• It is definitely a sweeping story, and it is a hard one to read.
• My only complaint about the book is all the characters were white, and I would have enjoyed different perspectives about the experiences of BIPOC folks.
• Kudos to Hannah for clearly spending a lot of time researching the era & the topics covered in the book.

TL;DR: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️historical fiction with strong women as main characters. time period: Dust Bowl.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Death, Death of parent, and Classism

Moderate: Animal death, Emotional abuse, Violence, Police brutality, Grief, Pregnancy, and Abandonment

Minor: Chronic illness

sarahfeller's review against another edition

emotional hopeful informative reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Alcoholism, Animal death, Bullying, Child death, Confinement, Cursing, Death, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Infertility, Miscarriage, Sexism, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Excrement, Police brutality, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Abandonment, Alcohol, Injury/Injury detail, and Pandemic/Epidemic

faduma's review against another edition

adventurous challenging dark emotional inspiring reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? N/A
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Bullying, Child death, Emotional abuse, Racism, Violence, Xenophobia, Police brutality, Death of parent, Abandonment, and Classism

chelly_reads's review against another edition

adventurous emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Plot
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Terminal illness, Grief, Medical trauma, Abandonment, and Injury/Injury detail

bergha1998's review against another edition

adventurous dark emotional inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

So freaking sad, but good! It’s really a story about the love of a mother during the hardships of the Great Depression. It’s told through the perspectives of a mother and her 13 year old daughter. So well done, but sad af. 

Historical Fiction, Emotional Trauma, Mother’s Love, 1 🔥

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Alcoholism, Animal death, Bullying, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Racial slurs, Racism, Violence, Blood, Police brutality, Grief, Murder, Abandonment, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail

Minor: Sexual content and War

bookedbymadeline's review against another edition

adventurous dark emotional sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

This is my second book from Hannah, technically, but the first one that I finished! It had a slow start but around the 60 page mark I got more into the story. It’s an emotional story with a lot of trauma these characters are put through.

Hannah does a good job of describing the atmosphere of the time period, for the most part. The novel taught me more about the Dust Bowl than I ever learned at school! We were taught about the dust storms and how it made living in the region dangerous, but I never learned just how intertwined the Dust Bowl and Great Depression were. It was eye-opening and I want to read more about the subject, especially since this is only the beginning and a lot was left out.

We read the novel through the perspectives of Elsa and her daughter Loreda. I really enjoyed the switching perspectives but they often felt repetitive and didn’t add many new things in each chapter. I didn’t love the characters, they felt a bit flat. I would’ve liked more character development especially from Loreda who blames her mom for literally everything. Elsa I liked a tiny bit more because for me, I read the repetition of her character as just trying to survive day to day for her kids and not having room to do/think about much else.

Themes of the book still felt very relevant to issues we still face today like the treatment of migrant workers and how many people are “othered”, the fight for worker’s rights, the lack of social support, and environmental disasters.

I think another reviewer mentioned the unfortunate lack of historical accuracy surrounding the striking/workers rights events as Hannah created a fictional event to center “Okies” (white migrant farmers) when a very real event took place around the same time involving Mexican migrant workers. The lack of diversity was disappointing, especially as Mexican and Black migrant workers were also central to this time period. It also became an issue as it was very white washed, I understand it’s historical fiction and you can’t fit everything into one book-but at 450 pages and repetitive dialogue, you could at least acknowledge certain aspects.

The talk about the Martinelli’s land (and Texas in general) is talked about in a “manifest destiny” sort of way. Elsa’s grandfather “fought to get this land”…failing to mention the Native Americans it was taken from. In fact, there is never any mention of them, the land just appeared magically apparently. The erasure of certain parts of history and minority groups, in favor of centering on white migrants (while conveniently ignoring their own white privilege) is at best irresponsible and at worst dangerous. Hannah chose to focus on an ugly part of history while conveniently taking out the marginalized communities mainly affected.

And the constant repetitiveness of “bad thing bad thing, but this is America” “ooh bad things are happening. In America” “this isn’t who we are in America.” YES IT IS! The constant pushing of this narrative when it is America and always has been, just not for middle class white people up until the Great Depression, was frustrating and inaccurate. It’s a real white woman moment for Hannah to have her characters constantly saying these things, ignoring history, and comparing themselves to slaves?! You may be getting paid an unlivable wage BUT YOU ARE GETTING PAID AND CAN LEAVE 😬

I was loving this book and feeling like it would be at least 4 stars, right up until this slave comparison/“oh my god how can this happen in America” nonsense. As if America is the pinnacle of freedom and there’s no way anyone could be so mistreated (except for the Native Americans, Black people, Jewish people, poor people, Mexican migrant workers, immigrants, etc etc) 🙃

Bare minimum was for Hannah to have addressed this history that she omitted in her afterword and explain why she did not include it, but instead she used that space to glorify and praise the white pioneers who reaped the benefits of the genocide.

Overall it was an interesting story that held my attention and taught me that I should look at the subject further. But the repetitive writing, lack of character development, and historical erasure was a bit disappointing. I’ll give Hannah’s books one more chance as I enjoyed this one well enough and DNFd one other, (plus I already have two more of her books on my shelves) so maybe lucky number 3 will be better!

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Violence, Grief, Abandonment, and Classism

Moderate: Alcoholism, Animal death, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, and Police brutality

Minor: Child death

franklola's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Plot
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Animal death, Bullying, Child death, Chronic illness, Confinement, Death, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Physical abuse, Sexism, Police brutality, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Abandonment, and Classism

kaimetcalfe's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Death, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Grief, and Death of parent

lidia7's review against another edition

emotional sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Plot
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Death, Miscarriage, Xenophobia, Death of parent, and Classism

Moderate: Animal death, Police brutality, Grief, and Abandonment

Minor: Animal cruelty, Body shaming, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Racism, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, Blood, Religious bigotry, Alcohol, Deportation, and Pandemic/Epidemic

nurseann7161's review against another edition

adventurous challenging inspiring medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Emotional abuse, Racial slurs, Slavery, Police brutality, and Classism

Moderate: Grief

Minor: Child death, Death, Gun violence, Sexism, Violence, Excrement, Police brutality, Medical content, and Alcohol