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El sutil arte de que te importe un caraj* - Segunda Edición: Un enfoque disruptivo para vivir una buena vida by Mark Manson
13 reviews
mattyvreads's review against another edition
2.75
I could not get over the fact that this book is so inextricably white, cis, het, and male centered. It is hard to argue keys to a better life when you are starting from a foundation of such extreme, concentrated privilege. He won the privilege lottery. So yeah, I understand how you’re living your best, happy life. Oh, and he mentions he grew up rich, too.
The advice isn’t ill intentioned, but there are some glaring blind spots in his worldview. He tries (and fails, in my humble opinion) to think outside of his perspective. Those sections feel pretty reductive and out of touch.
The advice is largely anecdotal, which some readers might expect. Occasionally, he’ll talk about
Some of the references in this book are very dated. There are some pretty glaring ageist, misogynistic, conservative or otherwise Puritan values in this book. One story in particular mentions a character who he repeatedly refers to as “the Asian girl” and makes a strange, sexualized joke about her. He implicitly shames the sex positivity / body liberation movement. Almost every example he gives of relationship dynamics is heteronormative and perpetuates harmful gendered stereotypes. There’s a lot to unpack.
Also, he brings up school shooters like three times and it’s always so jarring and seemingly out of nowhere.
Despite all of that, surprisingly, there are some great things in this book. Truly.
Here are some great insights from the book that I actually think are worthwhile:
2) “Whatever makes us feel good will also inevitably make us feel bad”
3) “Certainty is the enemy of growth.”
4) “Choosing better things to give a fuck about”
I don’t think I’ll read it again. But I’m glad I read it once.
Moderate: Addiction, Domestic abuse, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Suicide, Grief, and War
jeanaquinlan's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Cursing and Death
Moderate: Suicide
sh543's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Addiction, Deadnaming, Death, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide
lovesbug787's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Cursing, Death, Infidelity, and Mental illness
Moderate: Addiction, Child death, Grief, Death of parent, Sexual harassment, and Classism
Minor: Body shaming, Cancer, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexism, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Toxic friendship, and War
Talks about a lot of uncomfortable or unfortunate situations as examples for ways to change life. They are brief for the most part but are covered and may be unsuitable for some peoplestoryoflife's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Death
Moderate: Suicide
jcprewett's review against another edition
2.75
Moderate: Death and Suicide
pidgepodge's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Cursing
Moderate: Mental illness
Minor: Addiction and Suicide
alicedroni's review against another edition
1.0
It's basically: Man-child learns how to empathize with other humans only after witnessing something absolutely tragic (huge trigger warning) and then makes the tragedy all about himself and how it taught him how to finally be a human being.
Also he constantly brags about how much he *definitely absolutely fucks all the time for sure*
Graphic: Suicide
Moderate: Misogyny
roaze's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Cursing, Death, Drug abuse, Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Suicide attempt, and Alcohol
kiingchika's review against another edition
4.25
Minor: Death and Suicide