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Le sais-tu que personne ne t'aime? by Daniel Zomparelli

gsroney's review against another edition

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4.0

“‘You never told your mom you're gay?’
‘No.’
‘Why not?’
‘She was so sick, and the doctors said she
couldn't handle much shock. Her heart was so bad.
I couldn't tell her. I was afraid that if I told her, it
would break her heart, and I'd be the last person to
break it.’
‘Oh, Daniel."
‘It feels like all we ever do in this world is
break each others' hearts.’"

“I ask him if he is happy, and he says he's not sure. He asks me if I am happy, and I say I'm not sure—I don't really know if I've been the ‘happy’ everyone means when they say the word. I know I've felt joy, and I've felt many moments of joy chained together to form happiness.”

This is not a collection for everyone. The writing style feels simplistic, but that adds to the sardonic and feckless tone that is pervasive through all of the stories. While darkly funny, each story deals with the complexities of gay hookups and relationships, insecurities, overwhelming anxiety, and ultimately a fear of happiness, or at least a lack of understanding of how to be happy.

steffi_r's review against another edition

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4.0

Mehr als einmal hatte ich das Gefühl zu schreien: ,Mann, werdet erwachsen und kriegt euren Scheiß geregelt!‘ Egal. Mochte diese miteinander verbundenen Geschichten sehr. Meine Lieblingsgeschichte ist ‚Date: Monster‘.

jonbot666's review against another edition

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3.0

I found the narrative frustrating at times but it felt realistic In terms of what gay dating is like. There are 3 amazing stories here. The rest are vignettes and really do exemplify the futile loneliness of love in the digital age. However, I think this is prose constructed as if it were poetry and the nuance gets lost a bit. Like a lot of romances, I felt it ended just as I had become fully immersed.

Very much worth a read, especially if you're familiar with Vancouver and it's landmarks.

dessa's review against another edition

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4.0

Oh my god. This collection is so snarky and self-centered and tender and dreamy and insecure and desperate and plain weird, and I loved every minute of it. I wish there was more. I finished this book and immediately called my neighbour and made him borrow it.

barkylee15's review against another edition

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4.0

3.75. I don't know what I was expecting when I started reading this, but I didn't expect it to be so funny, yet also moving in parts or to be charmed by some of these characters. Since it is a short story collection, there are often going to be misses mixed in with the winners, and this is true here. But overall, I enjoyed this collection quite a bit.

rachelwhite11's review against another edition

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emotional funny reflective sad tense

3.75

huckleberryrk's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

Intriguing. For the depressed gay man in your life.

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girlygirlreader's review against another edition

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4.0

A creative retelling of queer romance. Each story had me coming back excited to move on to the next. Strongly recommend!

catuli's review against another edition

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4.0

Jenny Slate posted about this so I didn't hesitate to check it out. Weird, sad and funny.

ngfsorensen's review against another edition

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2.0

Zomparelli writes characters who live where depression and longing meet—and he writes them exceptionally well. This collection has some of the rawest depictions of gay hookup culture I’ve ever read. However, that’s really all the collection has to offer and each of the short stories begin to blend with the others and feel like different sets for the same story.