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Take My Hand by Dolen Perkins-Valdez

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jtaylor0701's review against another edition

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emotional informative inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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anna_reads_too_much's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

WOW. I had seen this book all over the place and heard a lot of things about it, but I finally took the plunge and read it. This book was absolutely stunning. It was pretty slow during Part I, and I had a harder time getting invested, but once Part II started, I was invested and very interested to see how the story was going to progress.

Be sure to read the author's note to see which parts of this book are based on true events and a major Supreme Court decision.

Horrifying to read, but beautifully written. Don't miss out on this one.

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challenging emotional informative sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

Title: Take My Hand
Author: Dolen Perkins-Valdez
Genre: Historical Fiction
Rating: 5.00
Pub Date: April 12, 2022

T H R E E • W O R D S

Delicate • Devastating • Illuminating

📖 S Y N O P S I S

Montgomery, Alabama, 1973. Fresh out of nursing school, Civil Townsend intends to make a difference, especially in her African American community. At the Montgomery Family Planning Clinic, she hopes to help women shape their destinies, to make their own choices for their lives and bodies.

But when her first week on the job takes her along a dusty country road to a worn-down one-room cabin, Civil is shocked to learn that her new patients, Erica and India, are children—just eleven and thirteen years old. Neither of the Williams sisters has even kissed a boy, but they are poor and Black, and for those handling the family’s welfare benefits, that’s reason enough to have the girls on birth control. As Civil grapples with her role, she takes India, Erica, and their family into her heart. Until one day she arrives at their door to learn the unthinkable has happened, and nothing will ever be the same for any of them.

Decades later, with her daughter grown and a long career in her wake, Dr. Civil Townsend is ready to retire, to find her peace, and to leave the past behind. But there are people and stories that refuse to be forgotten. That must not be forgotten.

💭 T H O U G H T S

Take My Hand was one of my 12 recommendations from 12 friends for 2023, and one I was most looking forward to after so many glowing reviews from trusted historical fiction readers. Honestly, I am not sure 5-stars is nearly enough for this powerful and emotional book.

One of the things I appreciate most about historical fiction is how it allows the reader a glimpse into history through so many different lenses. Although Take My Hand is a fictionalized account (based on true events), the writing and characterization brought everything to life. Told in dual timelines and exploring the haunting history of eugenics, this novel is incredibly well-written and eye-opening. The characters were three dimensional and I was sucked into their lives from the very start. There were moments of pause, there were tears, there was anger - it was just an incredible reading experience. Yet knowing this happened, and continues to happen, is so unsettling.

Take My Hand will be easily be finding its way onto my forever shelf, as well as my year-end 2023 favourites list! It's a novel offering another much needed layer to the discussion of reproductive rights and justice. It is sure to spark discussion, raising moral and ethical questions. I will be thinking of this one for a long time to come. So far my friends have been hitting it out of the park with their recommendations.

📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• historical fiction lovers
• fans of Necessary Lies
• bookclubs

🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S

"Our bodies belong to us. Poor, disabled, it didn't matter. These were our bodies and we have the right to decide what to do with them."

"There is no greater right for a woman than having a choice."

"I had never known that good intentions could be just as destructive as bad ones."

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emotional hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

4.5

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dark emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.0

This has been one of the hardest books to listen to. The narrator did a beautiful job, but the content is tough, and I felt, somewhat repetitive. I felt like some areas seemed kind of stuck.

Civil Townsend begins working in 1973 for a family planning clinic. Part of her job involves giving women, and even female children (ages 10-18) depo provera injections. She develops a close bond with one family of two young girls and tries to help change their lives.

As someone who received depo provera, this book was very triggering to me. I looked it up and it’s still given, so I’m not really sure why it’s labeled as so dangerous (although it is limited in Europe).

This book also involves involuntary sterilization, and taking advantage of people who are poor and trusting.
There is also detailed discussions of abortion, beginning early in the book.

“This novel is a work of fiction loosely inspired by the real-life case of Relf v. Weinberger. In June 1973, Minnie Lee and Mary Alice Relf, sisters aged twelve and fourteen, were sterilized without their consent in Montgomery, Alabama, by a federally funded agency. Outraged by this terrible violation, their social worker, Jessie Bly, reported it to a local attorney. Eventually, the case went to federal court in Washington, DC.“

“My hope is that this novel will provoke discussions about culpability in a society that still deems poor, Black, and disabled as categories unfit for motherhood.” author’s note

“The beginnings of a compliment always ended up stinging like an insult.” Part 1 chapter 2

“Sometimes love can kill you, just like hate. You love too hard and you can lose yourself in other folks’ sorrow. You hate too hard and you know the rest of that story. Take care of yourself.” Part 2 chapter 27

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theinkwyrm's review against another edition

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dark emotional inspiring reflective sad slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

A strong, compelling, emotional novel based on real events I’d never heard of before. I feel like Perkins-Valdez did a wonderful job of portraying what happened to India and Erica and the entire Williams family and the people around them. I took my rating down half a star because I feel like the present-day timeline wasn’t as strong or as clear as the past timeline and I think I would have preferred if she had kept the present timeline toward the end of the book or even just left it out altogether as it doesn’t feel like it contributes much to the overall narrative. I would still highly recommend this book to basically anyone, especially in the current political climate and discussions about women’s reproductive rights in the aftermath or the overturning of Roe v. Wade.

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