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Friends & Dark Shapes by Kavita Bedford

mckmillican's review

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3.0

It’s not a BAD three stars, it’s just a normal three stars. It’s just that I’ve already read The Inland Sea and All This Could Be Different and I just didn’t need another book just like it. It’s ambient, it’s slice of life, it’s twenty-somethings feeling ambiently worried about the future and if they’ll be able to afford a house or not. I think I’m just really thirsty for some real plot these days.

I read books like this and I worry sometimes I read them just for the sake of reading them, rather than reading them for some actual purpose. Like thinking about them later, getting inspired by the writing, working my brain a bit. Maybe it’s fine to read a lazy river of a book sometimes but I’ve got to slot something with a bit more va va voom into my 2023 lists.

kamna's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

belinda_chisholm's review

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hopeful lighthearted reflective sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.5

shibbyy's review

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emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? N/A
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

lorryx3's review

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  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.0

theverticalbookshelf's review

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dark emotional funny reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.25

I have had this on my saved instagram posts for a long time. I saw a review from Pauline Is Reading and generally that’s all I need. 
This book surprised me, it is character driven and whilst I felt towards the end I needed more, it was engaging and effortless. 

The story follows differing cultures, differing life experiences. The real life of living in a share house, where dishes are left undone and cleaning is the last thing of everyone’s list. Trying to understand how everyone lives, in and out during the day and night. LIke ships in the night. Hard to create deep and meaningful friendships. This story beautifully describes the inner-city life. The gentrification, the housing situations, the people. I felt like I wanted to know more about these fleeting characters. Bedford does an incredible job of telling the story of those who sit on the edge of marginalised groups. 

Bedford also builds a beautiful emotional journey with the main character and her father. The relationship is strong and just, well, beautiful. It’s true love in all of its glory. It took my heart.  HIghly recommend. 

turtletats's review

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3.0

I enjoyed this cause I grew up in Sydney, but other than that I found it pretty forgettable. For me it didn't explore grief with any depth. 

bibliolucinda's review

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4.0

“I heard once that you start to feel a kinship for a place when you have lost a loved one in its soil, and so, ashes to ashes, I am bound to this sunburnt land.”

This book follows a group of friends living in Redfern, Sydney, each verging on the cusp of their 30s and processing the anxiety and insecurity that comes with early adulthood. In the midst of dealing with the loss of her father and the changing shape of her relationships with her friends, our narrator is navigating everyday life in the city, alongside her own loneliness and evolving sense of self. She is searching for a connection or anchor to meaning and purpose, in the face of reconciling with her grief, amidst ever transient, shifting surroundings.

“...I think about the jerking woman with all her stretchy cuts, and her glass stare, and how all of us have sea creatures swimming in our heads, and I feel sad that she had no one to talk with, like I did, to make her pain fall away.”

I loved the structure of this book - we follow the narrator across the seasons through individual vignettes that are introspective and lyrical in style. Bedford’s writing and her protagonist’s processing of time, loss and the idea of success felt very relatable. Her meditations on the setting of Sydney also felt very accessible to me, given my own connection to the city. This book considers a life in simultaneous metamorphosis and stasis, the sense of constantly being on the cusp of change or being trapped in equilibrium, a moment in time that all young adults experience.

“The truth about getting older, she says, is you just spend more time watching the same streets and missing people that used to be in them with you.”

Given how tied the characters and story is to the setting of Sydney, I’d be interested to know how readers from other cities / countries have engaged with this one and whether the themes Bedford explores transcend its setting in achieving a universal relatability. It is a beautiful debut novel and great finale for my Aussie April reads!

jesskuang's review

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dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

marrr3na's review

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5.0

Are you a millennial living in a big, changing city? Do you want to feel seen in an emotionally painful, almost insultingly accurate kind of way? Read on.