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My Absolute Darling by Gabriel Tallent

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maybak's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

C’est un livre qui ne laissera personne indifférent. J’ai trouvé les 70 premières pages difficiles à lire d’un point de vue émotionnel car on comprend rapidement

qu’il s’agit d’un père incestueux et que Julia Alveston alias Turtle est une ado maltraitée et en décrochage scolaire.

Sa mère est morte dans des circonstances peu claires et elle a grandit avec Martin, son père survivaliste, alcoolique et féru d’armes à feux. Son grand-père, Daniel, vit tout près d’eux dans son mobile home avec sa chienne âgée Rosy mais son fils et lui sont loin d’être en bons termes.

Turtle vit dans des conditions difficiles et elle est victime d’abus aussi bien émotionnels que physiques.

L’auteur a très bien su retranscrire comment une enfant maltraitée et qui n’a pas d’autres points de repères fait pour rationaliser les sévices qu’elle subit et à quel point il lui est difficile de tracer une ligne entre ce qui est normal et ce qui ne l’est pas.

Turtle prend conscience du fossé entre son enfance et l’enfance des autres enfants lorsqu’elle fait la connaissance de Brett et Jacob. La mère de Brett était une amie de la mère de Julia et on sent qu’elle se fait du souci pour elle car elle connaît bien son père. Jacob vit une vie radicalement différente de celle de Turtle. Ses parents sont aisés, éduqués et souvent absents. J’ai aimé comment Gabriel Tallent a su montrer que la communauté tente d’aider Julia comme elle peut à travers les personnages d’Anna, la prof de Turtle, de Jacob, Brett et leurs familles. Il a également su montrer à quel point il est facile pour des enfants maltraités de passer entre les mailles du filet

car personne dans l’entourage de Julia ne se rend compte que son père l’a abandonnée pendant 3 mois, après le décès fracassant du grand-père de Julia.

Le roman est fort en émotions, plutôt graphique par moments et j’ai trouvé la deuxième moitié plus entraînante. Le rythme et l’intrigue s’intensifient et on est tenu en haleine en se demandant comment les choses vont finir pour Turtle et la petite Cayenne.

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brieflyblue's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

When I bought this book, I read the summary on the back and thought it would be a relatively lighthearted story. I could not have been more wrong. I can say, with the utmost confidence, that this was my toughest read since Lolita. Words cannot possibly do justice to my feelings in this moment. All I know is that it’s 2 A.M. and I need to vent a bit.

First, I will never understand why so many male authors write stories like this. What fascinates them so much about female suffering, and why do they seem to think they are the best people to tell these stories? It feels voyeuristic.

Martin is the worst, and I know that’s probably written intentionally, but dear god. The first 1/2 to 2/3 of this book feels slow. Call it “setting the tone” or whatever, but by the time the action started I was just so tired of Martin running his mouth and waxing poetic about how everyone and everything is terrible and how badly he wants to

kill his daughter.

Turtle is an interesting character, I’ll give you that. Her psychology and growth is the only saving grace of this novel. She is simultaneously self-aware and entirely deluded by her father’s influence. She loves and hates him. I like that she was not some perfect, meek victim, but instead someone who struggled with moral/ethical dilemmas regarding her father’s behavior and chose to act—if imperfectly.

In short, I would not recommend this book. It contains nothing that you couldn’t find elsewhere.

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mmwbrown114's review against another edition

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dark emotional tense fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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sventura's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Ripped my heart to pieces.

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kellyofcali's review

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challenging dark emotional sad tense fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

I rapidly consumed this book, which is heart-wrenchingly dark and awful, but very well written and you just keep reading hoping that it's going to get better (I won't say whether this want comes to be). It is really, really tough, so you have to be up for that kind of horrific material, but I found myself quickly entangled in the characters and story.

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meeshreads's review against another edition

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challenging dark tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This book is brutal, not an easy read. The story was a little slow to start, easing you into the world of Turtle and her father. For most of the book, I just had the horrible feeling that something bad was going to happen... Well, something worse, because it was not a good situation from the start. At some point, I got hooked and could not put this book down. It's just absolutely heart wrenching, uncomfortable, and upsetting in so many ways. I really loved Turtle, even when I didn't like her very much. I will be looking forward to more from this writer!

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