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Paris: The Memoir by Paris Hilton

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I was not expecting to learn so much about ADHD and IVF.  

I really enjoyed this. I've never been a Little Hilton per se but I do have this distant intrigue to this socialite, especially since she came out about her horrific experience in those wilderness camps as a child. 

I hadn't realised how much trauma she had been through and found her life that was disclosed in her memoir in her own words to be powerful, engaging and full of growth.

The way she loves her animals and the people in her life was so beautiful to read about, but I'm glad she opened up about the difficulties she had in relationships as it brought her into the perspective of being relatable and empathic. So when she's talking about growth and freedom to live her life, despite her own acknowledgement of her privallages, it's stated with a strong sense of relief and happiness.

I thought this was a fantastic insight into Paris' life. I really enjoyed reading this and finished it (mainly via audiobook, where she narrates it herself) over a day and a bit.



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10/10. No notes. A must read for anyone who is or loves a person with ADHD.

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es īsti nezinu, ko es domāju par šo grāmatu. es biju dzirdējusi ļoti daudz labu atsauksmju par šo grāmatu, tāpēc no vienas puses es gaidīju kaut ko ļoti wow. bet tā nebija. stāsts diezgan bieži bija ļoti haotisks; parisa iesāk stāstīt par kaut ko vienu, tad iepin pavisam citu notikumu, tad atkal turpina iepriekšējo, un temati mainījās tik ātri kā amerikāņu kalniņos. tulkojums uz latviešu valodu bija ļoti slikts, un es pieļāvu kļūdu, lasot to latviski, jo stāsts netika atspoguļots pietiekami precīzi. ko es noteikti vēlējos, bija kādus foto, kas ļautu tvert stāstu pilnīgāk. 
parisa vairākkārt uzsvēra, ka viņa ir self-made, bet tā īsti nav - tāpat viņa ir nepotisma rezultāts, un viņas uzvārds un slava, pat pirms viņa kaut ko bija sasniegusi, jau gāja viņai pa priekšu. tika atspoguļoti daži notikumi, kuri bija stāstā, manuprāt, nevajadzīgi. jāsaka, lai arī cik briesmīgi tas nebūtu, pati interesantākā daļa grāmatā bija par laiku tajā šausmīgajā "skolā". 
parisa hiltone ir un paliek ikona, un viņa kaut kādā ziņā mani iedvesmo, bet šī grāmata nav tas pats labākais memuārs, ko esmu lasījusi, diemžēl. :(

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This book is hard to read. Not because it’s written by Paris Hilton (and her ghostwriter) and not for the reasons that people would assume - that it would be vapid and boring and self serving - because this book is none of those things. This book is a hard read because Paris doesn’t spare the details of the horrors she’s endured, especially as a young adult in the “troubled youth” programs. 

This book was absolutely captivating, emotionally raw, stunningly well written, and had me near tears at points. 

You can decide for yourself if you think her book is genuine or a cleverly crafted PR piece, but one thing is for sure, this is a book that all young girls/femmes - teens and early twenties - should have access to. This book can open up a world for them to know that they are not alone, many of their experiences from small to big and light to dark are normal and that they are not the ones to blame. This is a book many teen and young adult girls/femmes (and even many others in the queer community) can relate to, learn from, and see themselves in.

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I definitely think I wouldn’t have enjoyed the book as much if I eyeball read this book.  Paris added so much emotion to the audiobook so that, even during the dark parts, I could keep going.

I remember growing up at the same time as Paris.  She’s only a few years older than me and I definitely othered her.  I am so sorry because this woman has gone through so much, money or not.

This book is such a beautiful look at ptsd, finding joy, and living with ADHD.

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Quick disclaimer before I get into the actual story review: the only reason this isn’t a 5 star review is because I listened to the audio version of this book and (genuinely no offense), I just couldn’t vibe with the LA valleyish tone in her voice. While she wasn’t using her fake baby voice that she’s known for, the unnecessarily raspy ending of every single sentence nearly drove me mad in certain chapters. So personally, it deducts a star for me because it did make the experience of this story a little less “enjoyable” if I may even call it enjoyable (considering just HOW MUCH trauma there is to unpack in her story). But the story itself was soul crushing. 

Okay, on to the story.
I don’t know where to begin, so I’ll just word vomit my feelings: this was nothing like I expected it to be. I went into this audio book completely blind, curious about what Paris might have to say because I remember being OBSESSED with The Simple Life back in the day. I knew Paris as the iconic Barbie girl who was an excellent business woman and knew how to market herself and keep herself relevant. What I did not expect was the horrific tragedies she had gone through.

From being literally kidnapped — with her parents permission! - and forced into an abusive youth facility to all the other unfair struggles she faced, I was shocked. I can’t fathom how she was able to forgive her parents after everything she went through because of THEIR continuous choices, but I guess it just goes to show how compassionate and big her heart truly is. Turns out I did not know Paris Hilton at all.

Paris shows how resilient she is and how strong she is to have endured the level of abuse on literally all levels she has had to go through. The fact that so many desperate parents who truly just wanted the best for their children had been scammed not only out of their money but also been broken beyond repair by these massive industries that are STILL RUN TODAY and that benefited from these difficult situations is absolutely disgusting and makes me lose my faith in humanity. 

And I truly just can’t help but question what the fuck her parents were on who kept repeatedly sending her back to the place that literally broke her apart each time she managed to run away. You can tell me whatever you want, but when your child begs you to come home and confesses with tears they’re being abused and you’re literally witnessing them dwindle into nothingness with your own eyes, how do you justify it with “we couldn’t have known”???????

I hope one day she gets to fully heal from all that she has suffered from and I pray for all the other victims whose names haven’t been mentioned but who have suffered the same — if not even worse — fate.


This was a very eye opening book and I’m glad I gave it a shot.

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I didn't realize how little I knew about Paris Hilton until I listened to this. I sincerely enjoyed Paris' narration and appreciated having the opportunity to hear her side of the story. Paris has overcome a lot in her life! An enjoyable, relatively quick listen.

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