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To Paradise by Hanya Yanagihara

18 reviews

mandi_lea's review against another edition

challenging emotional mysterious sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Ableism, Death, Homophobia, Infertility, Mental illness, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Violence, Police brutality, Medical content, Grief, Stalking, Death of parent, Murder, Abandonment, Colonisation, Classism, and Pandemic/Epidemic

fkshg8465's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Plot
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

Another sadly beautiful book, it is it a beautifully sad book?, by Hanya Yanagihara. Haunting. It’ll start with me a long time, just like A little Life. Grateful to have read it.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cancer, Child death, Chronic illness, Confinement, Death, Homophobia, Infertility, Infidelity, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Terminal illness, Xenophobia, Medical content, Kidnapping, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Abandonment, Colonisation, Classism, Deportation, and Pandemic/Epidemic

becksusername's review against another edition

adventurous challenging dark emotional mysterious tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

I'm crying in a coffeeshop.

I want to know if they made it to paradise - all of them. Even the first David, who was a spoiled brat. But especially Charlie

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Bullying, Cancer, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Death, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Infertility, Infidelity, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual assault, Terminal illness, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Murder, Cultural appropriation, Toxic friendship, Classism, and Pandemic/Epidemic

isobel_laura's review against another edition

dark reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Ableism, Homophobia, Racism, Medical content, and Pandemic/Epidemic

Moderate: Animal death, Infertility, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual assault, Medical trauma, Death of parent, and Injury/Injury detail

annieo15's review against another edition

emotional hopeful mysterious reflective sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

The  sections of this book weave together in a fascinating, imaginative way. Yanagihara develops three plots and sets of characters that, when combined, offer reflective insight into relationship dynamics, societal and familial standards, and what it means to be a flawed human. I feared this would not live up to the reputation of her previous novel, but it is entirely different and equally enthralling.

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Death, Homophobia, Infertility, Terminal illness, Grief, Death of parent, Cultural appropriation, Toxic friendship, and Pandemic/Epidemic

erebus53's review against another edition

challenging emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

CW: pandemic, lab testing on animals, armed police, dystopia, military law, radicalisation/terrorism, chronic illness, seizures, environmental destruction, arranged marriage, internment camps etc.

Spanning roughly 200 hundred years this is a book about a world similar to our own but subtly different. It starts in the 1890s in an America which has some areas where it is legal to marry anyone you wish. It discusses 1990s in the same place only with a backdrop of the looming spectre of HIV. The final part is in the 2090s after waves of pandemics have changed the face of the First World into a dystopian vision of strict controls and segregation.

The book discusses health and frailty, chronic illness, being gay, the idea of inheritance and Legacy, life and treatment of migrants of ethnic minority, and love, feud, vulnerability, and .. people being people.

When I got the audiobook I had no idea it was such a long read (over 900 pages or 28+hours in the Audiobook) but the story wasn't really slow.. it just had a LOT in it. It seemed a poetic decision to have a recurring set of names and places. Partly this was to reinforce the continuity of lineage, inheritance and flow of time. Looking at things from different cultural perspectives over time highlights the changes caused by the passage of time, but also the similarities.

This book is artful and tells the stories within it through letters, memories, and stories told to others. It leans hard into the Hawaiian / Pacific Islands' oral tradition, and also highlights the place of those shared stories we tell each other, and how they cement families and communities. It also shows how that knowledge can be so fragile and be lost to time when ideas are not shared or if they cannot be passed on well.

This story starts as a piece of historical speculative fiction, but the latter parts of the book are set in a police state. Published in 2022, this book clearly channels a lot of the common ground we have experienced in the face of global pandemic. Freedom of information, and the radicalisation of rebels and conspiracy theorists against government control, are sympathetically highlighted by the use of main characters on both sides of the fence, one working for the government to limit the casualties of disease, and one fighting against government misinformation and lack of social freedoms.

For all the big ideas, the thing that really sells this whole book to me is the solid characters. The feelings expressed and the stuff they are going through really resonate with me. A number of the characters over the span of the book deal with anxiety, trauma and  chronic physical illness. The relationships formed are often oddly unbalanced, either due to finances, physical/emotional frailty, or even just charisma, and the problems those couples have feel very real to me.

I could go on, but it would be too much. The characters were believable and human, and representation of disability and mental illness was relatable. The discussion of migrants and ethnic minority was an element I valued, and I loved that with the use of Hawaiian language I could still pick up one word in three due to its similarity with te reo Māori (which I  only have a very basic familiarity with).  This was a really good book, and I should have read it last year.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Ableism, Cancer, Child death, Chronic illness, Confinement, Cursing, Death, Gun violence, Homophobia, Infertility, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Racial slurs, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Terminal illness, Violence, Forced institutionalization, Grief, Cannibalism, Death of parent, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Pregnancy, Cultural appropriation, Colonisation, and Classism

Moderate: Body horror, Bullying, Rape, and Abandonment

Minor: Alcohol

nibs's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

This book. I was mad at it in its third quarter for its intense surprise pandemic-ness, but it really pulled together in the last quarter with more dystopian themes. There are some things that frustrated me about this book - a lot was to do with feeling blindsided about the pandemic content (it doesn't appear until halfway through and is very heavy on the pandemic content in the secone half) and it all felt too close due to covid. I took multiple extended breaks and almost DNFed at 75%. But I'm glad I finished it. 
This book has an epic scope. I want to reread it some day and further map out its intricacies. Its complex and beautiful and philosophical.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Infertility, Terminal illness, Colonisation, and Pandemic/Epidemic

Moderate: Child death, Homophobia, Sexual assault, Violence, and Medical content

rachaelwho's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

Could've used a firmer editor. Lots of unnecessary repetition, and a dickensian tendency to over-describe everything. Would've been more impactful, I think, at about a third shorter.

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Content Warnings

Minor: Ableism, Animal death, Bullying, Chronic illness, Confinement, Death, Emotional abuse, Genocide, Hate crime, Homophobia, Infertility, Infidelity, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Slavery, Terminal illness, Forced institutionalization, Police brutality, Medical content, Grief, Religious bigotry, Death of parent, Cultural appropriation, Colonisation, War, Classism, and Deportation

ame_lepage's review against another edition

slow-paced

2.25

This was one of the most painful reading experiences ever.
This book was just so not for me.
I have considerable eco-anxiety, and this book triggered me pretty badly (especially the third book). I was definitely not having a great time, and while I understand that it's important to know what will happen if we don't do anything about climate change, this was just too much for me.
I also think the idea behind this story might have been too ambitious. There was basically no connection between the three books (and if there was, it was never stated explicitly and you were left to figure it out on your own, which in some cases work, but it didn't in this one), which made me wonder what was the point of the book. I also felt like the author was withholding information about the world purposely just for the shock factor, which is not something that works well, in my opinion. I still have too many questions after finishing the book.
I also feel like the author might have taken the open endings too far. We never know how the first and the third book finish, which was so unsatisfying (especially when you stick through a 700 hundred-pages book in the hopes of having some kind of conclusion).
I do have to say the Book 2, Part 2 was great. I even cried at the end and for me, it was the highlight of the book. However, apart from that, it was unfortunately a miss for me. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Homophobia, Infertility, Racism, Toxic relationship, Cultural appropriation, and Abandonment

Moderate: Rape

qqjj's review against another edition

challenging dark tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Chronic illness, Confinement, Death, Homophobia, Infertility, Infidelity, Forced institutionalization, Medical trauma, Abandonment, Colonisation, and Classism