Reviews tagging 'Child abuse'

What My Mother and I Don't Talk About: Fifteen Writers Break the Silence by Michele Filgate

33 reviews

caribbeangirlreading's review

challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

3.0

Some of the essays were hard to read. Some were heart warming. A few were mediocre. Overall, though I found this to be a very cathartic read.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Pedophilia, Homophobia, Suicide attempt, Child abuse, Fatphobia, Gaslighting, Blood, Mental illness, and Adult/minor relationship

kat_c_h's review

challenging dark emotional reflective sad fast-paced

3.75

TW: this book does talk a lot about childhood abuse and generational abuse. Both are pretty hard to read at times. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Homophobia, Sexual assault, Child abuse, and Rape

cady_sass's review

challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

This is a heavy read. As with any anthology or collection of essays with multiple authors, some things are going to resonate and others are not. I think there is genuinely something for everyone here, whether your relationship with your mother is good or great or toxic or non-existent. A lot of tough topics are handled very eloquently and it may be tough to get through at times but it’s a worthy read. I’d recommend this to most people, I think you’ll find something that sticks with you for a long time to come. I know I did. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Drug use, Rape, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Death, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Terminal illness, Cursing, Ableism, Racism, Sexual assault, Toxic friendship, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Medical trauma, Sexism, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Dysphoria, Emotional abuse, Grief, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Medical content, Physical abuse, Violence, Death of parent, Eating disorder, Misogyny, Self harm, Sexual harassment, Suicide attempt, and Suicide

sakisreads's review

challenging dark emotional slow-paced

3.5

What My Mother and I Don’t Talk About is a hard-hitting, (sometimes) harrowing set of essays written by a range of authors. I loved the ways in which it was so nuanced; even when some mothers inflicted harm, their children found ways to forgive. I read this with the knowledge that regardless of what pain people can inflict on their loved ones, the bond can still be so strong and well, relentless 😳 I found the essay by Nayomi Munaweera especially challenging 🥲 

All in all, difficult but definitely worth reading 👏🏼

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Gaslighting, Rape, Body shaming, Child abuse, Bullying, Chronic illness, Death of parent, Self harm, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Adult/minor relationship, Cancer, Mental illness, and Suicide attempt

youreadtoomuch's review against another edition

challenging dark hopeful reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

A collection of moving essays. They all tug a little in the right direction for me: on loving and forgiving your mother,, on acknowledging the pain caused by your mother and denying your mother a chance to be a part of your life. Some essays lacked charm in writing style, they felt detached and rightfully so. But I loved being so intimately welcomed into each writer’s life. I cherished this book and recommend to anyone but be mindful of some heavy topics discussed.

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Child abuse

luise96's review

dark emotional reflective sad fast-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse and Domestic abuse

Moderate: Drug abuse

Minor: Rape

samanthajore's review against another edition

4.5

I don't know what I was expecting when I went into this book but whatever I was expecting this book blew away all my expectations. Throughout the different essays multiple authors went into their way of breaking free from the trauma they were put through when they were younger. The different stories all showed different perspectives of how trauma changes people and how it manifests. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Gaslighting, Eating disorder, Death of parent, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, and Abandonment

mebarney35's review

emotional fast-paced

3.75

15 essays about the relationship between mother and child. After reading some excerpts online, I was hoping for some advice in this book. While there were some relatable passages, most essays feel like authors getting something off their chest. Over half of the stories deal with very heavy topics (ranging from emotional abuse to rape) and it was sometimes challenging to read. Some of the essays were written better than others. 

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Addiction, Domestic abuse, Rape, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Child abuse, and Drug abuse

its_j's review

adventurous challenging emotional funny hopeful reflective relaxing fast-paced

4.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Suicide attempt, Alcohol, and Body shaming

Moderate: Mental illness, Death of parent, Homophobia, Fatphobia, Eating disorder, and Drug use

kassik13's review against another edition

challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Sexual assault, Domestic abuse, and Child abuse