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I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World by Kai Cheng Thom
14 reviews
melodyseestrees's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Suicide, Transphobia, and Violence
Moderate: Drug use, Racism, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, and Sexual harassment
Minor: Suicide attempt and Colonisation
atreegrowsinbooks's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Suicide, Transphobia, and Violence
Moderate: Racism, Sexual assault, and Suicidal thoughts
nikenacs's review against another edition
5.0
Kai Cheng Thom covers three overarching themes in this book: Queer leftist in-community conflict, especially in regards to punishment culture and public shaming, and transformative justice. Sexual violence, especially within queer leftist circles. And trans woman / trans feminine experiences, both her own and in larger culture. (Very broadly speaking, with overlap as well as some other topics covered).
For me personally, the first two topics /got/ me, I think I read this at exactly the right time in my life. Although not always easy, the essays felt like a hug that said "I know. I've been where you've been. We can try to make it, together". As someone who cares deeply about queer leftist circles, but is frequently frustrated and dissatisfied with The State Of It All™, especially in regards to public shaming and black-and-white-thinking, Thom touches on so many of my questions and anxieties. I had not yet done much reading into transformative justice, and I sure as hell will now. I don't think it'll hold all the answers - this book didn't hold all the answers either - but it's going to give me fantastic food for thought.
The third topic touched me less personally, but made me reflect on the trans women / femmes in my life, as well as those I never got to meet, may never get to meet. In some parts - politics, celebrities, pop culture - it really showed that this book was written in 2019, largely drawing on experiences of the 2010s. I would be so curious to see an update to this for the 2020s, regarding an even more supposedly trans-inclusive pop culture, and violent anti-trans laws on the rise in large parts of North America (and elsewhere).
TLDR: This book gave me amazing food for thought and I will be buying, re-reading and recommending it.
Graphic: Homophobia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Transphobia, Violence, Suicide attempt, and Sexual harassment
zombiezami's review against another edition
Graphic: Bullying, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Transphobia, Violence, Grief, Suicide attempt, and Classism
Moderate: Chronic illness, Infidelity, Misogyny, Racism, Sexism, Medical content, Medical trauma, Murder, Outing, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Addiction, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Gun violence, Trafficking, Mass/school shootings, Religious bigotry, Pregnancy, Alcohol, and Colonisation
eekennel's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Transphobia and Violence
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Suicide attempt
solenodon's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Toxic relationship
Moderate: Death, Domestic abuse, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Racism, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Transphobia, Violence, Grief, and Suicide attempt
Minor: Drug use, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Infertility, Forced institutionalization, Medical content, Stalking, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, Colonisation, and Dysphoria
caprivoyant's review against another edition
I'm going to give it back to the library and let someone enjoy it who's in a better place to soak in all the info right now. Maybe I'll pick it back up again later.
Moderate: Mental illness, Rape, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, and Transphobia
catherinemcfall's review
3.5
Moderate: Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide
bobsacoolword's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Death, Homophobia, Mental illness, Racism, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Violence, Suicide attempt, and Sexual harassment
This book covers a lot of tough topics. I tried to pull from some of the most common content warning on reviews for the book, but I would definitely be prepared for things that can be tough to talk about.dytiscusfriend's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Ableism, Addiction, Body shaming, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Hate crime, Misogyny, Racism, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Transphobia, Xenophobia, Police brutality, Religious bigotry, Stalking, Suicide attempt, and Murder