allison_f_2023's review against another edition
3.0
Some interesting ideas, but most of his tips were either ones I already knew (like pay attention to your kid when he's being good) or way too weird (like mirror his tantrum back at him and clap/growl at him to warn him when he misbehaves). His infant book was super helpful, though, so I'm glad I gave it a try.
dianashadel's review against another edition
5.0
I will revisit this a ton! Every page had an “aha” for me, and it always has me excited about a new perspective or technique. Highly recommend.
fraeyalise's review against another edition
challenging
funny
informative
inspiring
lighthearted
reflective
slow-paced
4.0
We will see how my rating changes once I start using these tips.
The techniques discussed in the book are simple, and I am glad to have an alternative to discipline than what I was taught.
The techniques discussed in the book are simple, and I am glad to have an alternative to discipline than what I was taught.
zusy's review against another edition
5.0
This made its way onto my "want to purchase" list. The complaint I have heard most about this book is the section on Toddlerese. I don't have a problem with it and it has actually helped on the few occasions I remember to use it.
libbydmccarthy's review against another edition
4.0
I read this REALLY slowly, which means I can barely remember the advice at the beginning. BUT I have tried to implement some of the advice and it seems to work really well with my son for the past 6-mo. The most valuable thing I have learned is that instead of immediately telling your child "no", relate back to them what it is that they want so they understand that you understand what it is they want. For some reason, it helps them calm down and be more understanding when you give a no (and a reason for the no). I think I will refer to this occasionally, and may read it again.
dibot's review against another edition
4.0
Easy to read with lots of good advice. I'm not sure it's working, but that could be user error.
mlottermoser's review against another edition
3.0
As we prepare to add another small human to the family I grabbed this book for some quick insights on my two toddlers. Some of the material is repetitive and basic, but the principles are sound. I have seen a difference in my interactions with my children already.
Acknowledge your toddlers feelings before you try to express your own. Simplify your language. Give attention and praise throughout the day to build your relationship. Make sure your toddler gets outside. Tune in for a short playtime to prevent meltdowns. Be silly. Use social stories. Gossip about your child's good behavior in front of him. Set a routine. Role play. Give options. Create win win situations. Establish a bedtime routine where you praise your child for good behavior throughout the day.
Acknowledge your toddlers feelings before you try to express your own. Simplify your language. Give attention and praise throughout the day to build your relationship. Make sure your toddler gets outside. Tune in for a short playtime to prevent meltdowns. Be silly. Use social stories. Gossip about your child's good behavior in front of him. Set a routine. Role play. Give options. Create win win situations. Establish a bedtime routine where you praise your child for good behavior throughout the day.
tiepilot_dandy's review against another edition
funny
informative
slow-paced
2.25
Read this after a discussion with other parents and just did not care for it. There's some good info in here, like not hitting your children, but it's overlong and repeats itself a LOT. I'm no expert but speaking "toddlerese" sounds... not for me. lol.
felinity's review against another edition
3.0
Some interesting ideas. I'm not sure I completely buy-in (unlike [b:The Happiest Baby on the Block|13641900|The Happiest Baby on the Block and The Happiest Toddler on the Block 2-Book Bundle|Harvey Karp|https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1355047183s/13641900.jpg|19257134] which was an incredibly helpful book) but I did try one of the techniques on a screaming, thrashing toddler this morning and it worked like a charm. (For the record, that was a combination of FFR and empathy.)